I love my current boyfriend, but my heart tells me to be with my ex. I dont want to hurt either one of them, but what should I do?
2006-10-25 06:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
remind yourself exactly why the other is an EX
2006-10-25 06:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a classic case of "I love my NICE boyfriend, who treats me right, but I really want my BAD BOY ex back who treats me like s*** because I'am physically more attracted to that." If this is the case, stay with your current bf and find a way to forget / ignore your ex, because your ex will just do the same things to you that made you break up with him in the first place. If, however, that's not the case for you, then go with your heart, because the current realtionship you are in will not work, if your heart is with someone else.
2006-10-25 06:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to say follow your heart but which one makes you feel better. In 8 months time did your ex do as much as you current boyfriend or has your current boyfriend done more. It all depends on why you and your ex separated in the first place.Do you love your current boy friend or are you in love with your boyfriend? If you love him its like you love the way he teats you, but if you are in love with him you can except all of his flaws no matter what you bother disagree on and still love the way he treats you.
2006-10-25 06:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lexie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, being in the same situation as you have, I must remind you of something. Your ex, is your ex, why?? Why/what broke yall up? Was it him? You? Did you never quite get over him? Is the new guy just a rebound relationship? Think about these things, and you will easier be able to see your answer from within. Always know, everything happens for a reason :)
2006-10-25 06:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by ~Miss Molly~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well your ex is an ex for a reason. before you jump into anything with him again, you should really think about why you broke up in the first place. usually people break up because they cant make it work, and i'd hate for you to break off a relationship with someone you love to try to work it out with someone you know you havent been able to work it out with before. in most cases, trying things again doesnt work. so you might want to ask yourself what you want out of a relationship with your ex, what you think you will get, and why do you think things will be different. also you might want to think about why you want to get back with him, because you may be hoping that getting back with him is going to give you something you are missing - something you think he has, but it may be something you are missing within yourself that you need to look at. also, it would be a good idea to think about why you wanted to be in a relaitonship with the guy your with now. if hes genuinely a good guy who treats you great, then thats not something that comes around often!
2006-10-25 06:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by faiths13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a reason that you and your ex broke up. Using your heart is not always the best way to go. Sometimes your brain has to kick in.
2006-10-25 06:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with your ex if you still have feelings for him. I don't think you can love your new boyfriend if you still love your old boyfriend. Does your ex boyfriend still love you or has he moved on?
2006-10-25 06:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by melanie_17_1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember why you and your ex broke up. You already gave it a chance with your ex. It's time to give this guy a chance if you think he is noble and will do right by you, stay with him or else you might regret.
2006-10-25 06:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart
2006-10-25 06:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋