tommorows my birthday and my boyfriends takin me out 2 dinner i have a feeling that hes gonna ask to marry me but im not ready for marraige and i just want a long term relationship right now but i love him what should i do?!?!?!
2006-10-25 06:22:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel. If he loves you he will wait until you are ready.
2006-10-25 06:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by K M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you even sure you want to be with him? This same thing happened to me in my last relationship. He was completely in love wtih me and dropping hints about marriage. I finally realized I was not in love with him nor could I fake those feelings. Why don't you tell him you are looking forward to tomorrow but don't want to do anything too exciting/crazy/that you just want it to be a chill night. That way he will know not to propose. But that is just the first hurdle. You've gotta figure out if you even awnt to be with him if you can't even imagine marrying him. I've been there before. i broke his heart. And I regret that but there is no sense in staying with someone if you can't imagine a future together.
Good luck, girl!
2006-10-25 06:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth exactly as you posted it!
you have an ethical obligation to yourself and to others to do just that! Marriage is way too serious matter with many concinguanses to every aspect of your as well as to others life, and I am glad that you are thinkinking about it.
2006-10-25 06:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth .. n u know u gonna break his heart tomorrow.. but he'll has to accept it..
btw have a happy bday tomorrow ,today's my birthday ;)
2006-10-25 06:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by Johny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you just told us. If he truly loves you then will understand.
2006-10-25 06:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he do pop the question tell him you are not ready
2006-10-25 06:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jonesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat with your fingers....maybe he won't ask after all.
2006-10-25 06:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him wut you just said right here. tell him you love him but your not ready to get married yet. if he loves you he'll wait.
2006-10-25 06:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by kirstin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋