With me we have been together for 5 years i know she ain't sleeping around as i know her well .I love her to bits and vice verser but there is money problem's but nothing that can't be fixed last time we broke up for 6 months i was starting to move on then i got a ring out of the blue and shagged like bunnies and were alright for next couple of months then rung me said i can't do this anymore then three days later rung me up for a drink whats going on ?
2006-10-25 06:05:11 · 25 answers · asked by Alex aka 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can only keep getting back together if you take her back. So next time don't. Being a security blanket is not the same as being a partner. She is using you I'm afraid, shame because it's people with that mind set that give the rest of us a bad name. Move on, find someone who doesn't just want someone they can play with till they are bored.
Good luck.
2006-10-25 06:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, and she loves you as you say, sit her down and be prepared to commit yourself to a more serious relationship. I had a similar relationship before I married. We got engaged after 5 years of courting, and have been extremely happily married for 38 years, raising 4 children. We are now the grandparents to 5 boys and 1 girl. If you genuinely feel that this girl is the one for you, then take the next step. This maybe what she is waiting for. Anyway all the best to you. Life is too short to be unhappy.
2006-10-25 07:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by researcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple.
Be a man, forget posting on the internet... Call her and tell her how you feel, be totally honest, and ask her why is she treating you like this? If she says 'I just want to be friends' (BullSh*t) then say thats fine, but I want a bit of space beceause I'm sorting a few things out in my life at the moment, and I want to get a bit of fresh air away from all this. And thats perfectly acceptable. If she persists in her behaviour i.e phoning you after a couple of months... Well I would just avoid contact, beceause shes sounds like she doesnt know what she wants, and shes gonna phuck you over while she figures that one out... Plus once shes figured it out... What she wants MIGHT NOT BE YOU!
You wanna wait around for that?
2006-10-25 06:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by LaMOi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why. It's possible that she's afraid of long-term commitment. If you've been going together for more than 5 years, she might have the impression that you will eventually get married and breaks up with you out of frustration when nothing happens.
2006-10-25 06:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to put your foot down!To tell u the true, her keep breaking up with u and calling and getting back together is disrespect! She should respect u as a man by talking it over first instead of jumping to conclusions!
2006-10-25 06:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heres my opinion. .
She knows that you are under her power. She knows you won't leave her. If you love her and want to stay with her tell her she has a choice to make. Say something like "If you really do love me and want to be with me then BE With Me! But if you dont want to be in this relationship then go. I can't keep do this on again off again relationship, its draining me inside, it hurts, i lobe you but i play this way anymore."
2006-10-25 06:14:46 · answer #6 · answered by WoWzIe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you do when she calls again and wants to get back together tell her no! that this breaking up and getting back together has to stop! that you what someone who wants to be with you just not when its convenient for them that will stick with you through thick and thin
2006-10-25 06:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the majority of the others have said.....move on!
2006-10-25 06:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by roxygurl1307 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jus messing around. Move on with your life and whenever she tries to come back, dont let her back. Good luck.
2006-10-25 06:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by teemah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're enjoying it and can do so without getting too involved then go for it, otherwise get out of it asap as it will only lead to you getting hurt in the long run
2006-10-25 06:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by pixie1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋