First of all, he's NEVER going to change. That's something you should keep in mind. Is it worth being hurt over and over again? I seriously doubt it, so the best thing you can do is just cut him off. Or at least take a LONG vacation from him. There are good, stable men out there. Don't let this guy mess you up too badly.
2006-10-25 06:11:13
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answered by yumyum 6
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Its really hard accepting that people do that to begin with, and then dealing the fact that they did and keep doing it. I was told people can only do to you what you let them, getting over it is alittle easier knowing they arent getting away w/it anymore and that you are standing up for yourself that should be enough, and just think how much harder it would be if you had let it go on, oh and people never really do change so forget it Good Luck!
2006-10-25 06:08:48
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answered by KIMBUR 4
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No see now that is something that some guys say that way you stick around but it is just a part they play that way they have someone there to be there for his every need. You need to get out and have some fun with your friends, and try to meet new people....keep yourself busy.....and well also you have to egnore him, dont answer his phone calls or anything....dont fall for his stupid lines that he said that he well change and that he is sorry for what he has done....its all B.S ! ! ! !...think about it....there are plenty of other men and yes MEN ! ! !! out there that well treat you like you are the the world to him, Trust me
Good Luck Gurl i wish you the best in life, and hope that you find happiness out there in this crazy world
:)
2006-10-25 06:11:27
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answered by Sweet Momma 2
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Get out of it take it from someone who was with a man for 10 years who was abusive and I heard that all the time and he never changed that is why now he is alone in and out of jail and I have his kids
2006-10-25 06:23:02
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answered by onehotmama 2
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My best friend stayed with a man who abused her for years. He told her that he would change everyday, but guess what... He never did. Abusive people rarely change, and if he has lied thus far I doubt he will be any different. Get out and find a man that respects you. There is one out there trust me.
2006-10-25 06:42:05
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answered by Ashley L 2
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When he tells you that he is not going to treat you right, then its time for you to get over him.
2006-10-25 06:06:45
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answered by Bubbles 3
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Don't waste your time. Talk is cheap. A grown man is hard to change. Ask yourself why you would endure such drama. A man should come to you as a man not a boy. If you have to fix him it is project you don't want to take on. Don't settle.
2006-10-25 06:06:28
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answered by Anonymous
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You leave, and find a new man. One who treats you right.
2006-10-25 06:06:44
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answered by dj nkro 2
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No. you're justified in being mad at him and hating him for what he did to you, yet no longer each guy in different ethnicities will act the comparable way. in simple terms by way of fact he's a chew of scum does no longer recommend he represents all mexican adult males. i comprehend of numerous interracial couples that are happy and in very sturdy relationships.
2016-10-16 09:47:58
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answered by ? 4
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as you will find out there are better choices awaiting you if you move on....i guess it all depends on how much pain one is willing to endure before deciding to move on....
2006-10-25 06:12:16
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answered by nellie 3
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