Ok...my story is kind of long and I need you to bear with me.
I have known this guy for 3 years now and I just started talking to him this year. I really like him....during the summer we would play tennis together and joke around. I really like him and think that we can be more than friends. There are a few problems though.First, he is a really nice guy...very family oriented. He loves his dad and whenever im around, he ignores me 4 his dad. I sound really jealous i know...anyway another problem is his mom is very protective of him...even though he is 17. I think that if I show him that i am interested that he will go and tell his mom...which is the last thing i need since his mom is really close to my mom.
I know its complicated....we go to different schools and i havent seen him since October 2 for like 2 minutes.
I sometimes find myself thinking about him and spend some nights crying in bed. I love him and he has no clue. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-10-25 06:03:05 · 11 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You come across as a bit immature about all this. I'm referring to whether or not your mother finds out. If that's your concern, then you are not ready for a relationship with anybody. You need to grow up a little more.
2006-10-25 06:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, do you really love him or do you just like him a lot? There is a difference. Whether it is yes or no to my question, I think if you feel strongly for him then there is no reason in the world not to tell him and see what happens. If you're nervous about his reaction to you telling him how you feel, then write him a letter or an email. It is sometimes a lot easier to express ourselves in writing than it is to say it face to face, however, face to face usually means more to some people. Do what makes you comfortable.
Secondly, why wouldn't you want your mother to know? If you and this guy got together are you going to hide in a closet so your mother won't find out? If you want a relationship then you have to deal with the things that come with it, and that includes family involvement and opinions. In the end, it is all up to you.
Don't cry about your situation...do something about it.
2006-10-25 06:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Willow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are just friends right now so if he shows his family more attention when you are around them it might not be like that if you get into something more serious and well if his mom doesnt have anything against you then she should have no problem with how you feel and my best advice is to just tell him how you feel about him but dont be like i love you so much and stuff cause that might scare him off
2006-10-25 06:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by super_man_4888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you should call him on the pone and tell him how you feel and if he just wants to be friends then move on but if he feels the say way that is great. You will never now how he feels about you until you tell him.
2006-10-25 06:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by melanie_17_1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is a tuff one you got yourself in to but if you really care for him and really want to be with him tell him and if he fells the same about you then dont worrry about his parents he will let them now how he fells about you too and he will let them now and all will be fine if not then he is a really not a close friend as you thought he was then move on your still young and have a good heard on your shoulders go on with your live and justed be friends with him and let begons be begons ok take care i hoped i helped you
2006-10-25 06:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by crazyberta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are interested...but be prepared for rejection in case he doesn't feel the same. Or talk to your mom about it first, mom's are good with advice whether their children want to believe it or not.
2006-10-25 06:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama and you are creating it all by your self.wait to see if this boy like you,you don't have to rush into anything because you like some one, slow down.you certainly don't love him and you are very immature to think so.
2006-10-25 06:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him hasn't going to kill you right or stay away from him.
2006-10-25 06:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by helen m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM SWEETIE!!!! HE'S NOT A MIND READER YA KNOW.HE MIGHT JUST FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU TOO!!!!!
2006-10-25 06:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT<>GROW UP!!!!
2006-10-25 06:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by Troble1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋