still calling, emailing, claims they are now girls that are just friends although they used to sleep together, is he a player or just somebody that needs to do this for his ego? Or is it my insecurities? Isn't this walking a fine line in a supposed committed relationship??
2006-10-25 05:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You wouldn't even ask this question if you didn't think he IS a player. Unless you really want to get hurt by him in the end, I would suggest breaking it off if this activity continues.
My .02
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2006-10-25 06:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by clipsegsxwidsm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your insecurity. A committed person must respect the relationship he has with you and be monogamous. He is not a one woman man I think you should find some one else hard as it may be but it will serve you better in the long run
2006-10-25 13:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he's not committed and is keeping them around for the "what if it doesn't work out" possibility. if you were married already and he was still holding onto them i would say he needed it for his ego. just as long as you know there is nothing else going on.
i probably shouldn't be answering this question since my husband continues this type of activity after marriage.
2006-10-25 13:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Calli G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother always told me "Never trust a man that has too many female friends" and I think she's right. A few is fine but when it outnumbers his male friends, it's something to be concerned with! I'd move on if I were you, before you get hurt. Just tell him you're not as compatible as you thought.
2006-10-25 13:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt sleeping with them anymore, then its probably just to boost his ego. Talk to him and see if he is really committed in your relationship. If he is, then he should break off his communication with his exes and be with you only.
2006-10-27 10:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not insecure
he is because he refuse to let go of his old relationship for fear if you don't work out he will have something to fall on
2006-10-25 13:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have their peculiar ways of showing off as 'the man'.but i tell you it is better you know all these issues than you are entangled with the 'saint-holy' type of man full of pretence & devilish.the job is in your hands to be the one who wins the race at the end.those ladies were there before he saw you & connected to you.never mind.be yourself & move to win the race.in fact this was exactly my case.yet i won & we have been married for years now.
2006-10-25 13:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A player, hands down. And yes, it's for his ego, too.
2006-10-25 13:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player to me, you probably deserve someone that has just one person on his mind, and that is you.
2006-10-25 13:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a player to me. If I were you, I'd tell him that if he wanted you truly and only you, then he'd break all ties with other women....you wouldn't do that to him....
2006-10-25 13:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋