Me and my girl have been together almost two years. Just the other day she said we should be apart because she is tired of our fighting. I mean i have always thought she was cheating because she will leave and not tell me were she is going or call for a whole night. Ill admit our fights have gotten physical she slaps me so i push her. She has put me through a lot but I still love her. I have lost everything because of her. I even had to move to my aunts house. she is living there too and refeuses to leave now that we are not together.
2006-10-25 05:44:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its hard to let go of someone you love. but you dont want to get back together and fight. if you dont see her or talk to her it will be easy to let go. if you go back out on the dating scene and give your attention to another, it will be easy to let go too. you need to find someone that is humble. you holding on to something that left you
2006-10-25 05:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this since you love her and everything let her go. If she is cheating on you, and by the way she is acting she very well could be, she doesn't love you the way you deserve to be love, if she loves you at all.
If you do get back together, which I personally think you shouldn't, think about couple's counseling. It's not a healthy relationship to be hitting each other.
As for your living situation talk to your aunt, if she is reasonable she will give her notice to move out, and then take proper action if she doesn't leave. If you are financially able to look for another place to live. In the mean time, find ways to avoid her at your aunt's, sound bad I know but this way you can't get into an argument with her thus having to come to blows, where she might just call the police on you.
2006-10-25 12:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by prin_avie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult when it gets to living circumstances. If, she's no longer your girlfriend and it was getting kind of ro ugh, you guys should separate for a little while. Don't feel bad, it gets better. If she is screwing up and messing around look at her in a different good way. Tell her sorry and that you can't work like that, but make sure that's what she's doing 1st before assuming! Don't hit girls either, just because your mad or angry. It only makes things worse! Try and convince her that your not working out and that it is best that you both should be your own ways! This way she can find someone and lean on them and you can do the same and you don't have to deal with one another. Make an agreement not to bring partner or other around the home you live in, it will only make things worse between both of you. Be kind and live your life. Be strong and tell her what you feel. If she doesn't care what you say or try to obey your wishes then let your aunt know she should move and that she needs to move on. If, she doesn't know what 's missing now, she'll find out later. It always happens.
2006-10-25 12:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by deadgrl6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! First of all if you think she's cheating she's not worth it. Leaving and not telling you where she's going is showing her lack of respect for you and your relationship. If you have physical fights that's not really good either. Who wants to go through that? You say you love her, which you might, but I think it's more of a comfort thing. You're just used to being with her. As for her not leaving your aunts house, make her leave. It's your family and she doesn't belong there if you aren't together.
2006-10-25 12:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by kristinlv1212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its gotten to the point that your getting physical it souldnt go on. It obviously wasnt meant to be if its gotten to that point. You two for sure love eachother if you have been together for two years but its time to move on. Sorry sweetie but its not going to get any better, it will only get worse if you two dont go your own ways now. It will be hard but it has to be done before you get into a huge fight and you end up sluggin her or her punchin you.
2006-10-25 12:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your delima. Unfortunately relationships like this only play with the heart and end up beating on your health. It's not healthy. My advice is, move on and if you have to leave to get out of this situation, it may be a good idea.
2006-10-25 12:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by coral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like her lap dog! she is wants to be apart but is living at "YOUR AUNTS" but refuses to leave!!! Give me a break if she walks all over you and you do nothing about it you deserve it because you allow it
as for the pushing/slapping both of you need to grow up on that one because you are both wrong
2006-10-25 12:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy,first you never hit a woman for any reason,second it your aunts house tell your aunt to get rid of her,move on and get some help for your temper!!!!!!
2006-10-25 12:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her removed from your aunt's house, the police will be glad to help. Why hasn't your aunt booted her out?
She hit you, that's it, that's the line you never cross.
2006-10-25 12:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try to get her back. But she does need to move and your aunt needs to do something about it. Wow, if she can't be honest with you, why would you want her back???? She seems to have some issues.
Good Luck!!
2006-10-25 12:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋