If you really liked a girl and she seemed as if she was into you just as much, then all of a sudden she said she just wants to be friends...how would you react?....woul you want to be just freinds or would you just stop talking to the girl all together?
2006-10-25 05:33:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and this is considering that you two have been out a few times
2006-10-25 05:33:43 · update #1
If I thought a girl liked me back, and then she just wanted to be friends, I would take it as misreading the situation. If it turns out she didn't like me like that, then it's my misunderstanding. I don't know what the hell these other guys are talking about. I guess I'm just more rational than some people. This has happened to me before and I continue to be friends. If he flips out and just wants a relationship, then maybe it's better off that you're not friends.
2006-10-25 05:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by ern_linnell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we both have been showing the same amount of interest in each other, giving the message that we want this to go somewhere,and I really have feelings for you ,and you suddenly change gears, it would depend on if we had been good friends before this happened. If we were good friends first and we thought there was more and it was for me, but not for you, I would be dissapointed , but would still consider you a friend. I may not want to hang with you as much, until the feelings are gone or someone else has come along to ease the loss, but I would at least stay in touch from time to time. If we weren't friends before, and this relationship started as a mutual attraction, and you suddenly turned the cold water on me, I wouldn't be happy about it, it would hurt to be around you and not be as close as I'd like , and if I wasn't able to just shut off those feelings, I would distance myself from you, wish you well, but not be able to hang out with you, it would be too painful.
2006-10-25 12:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by mainah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've stopped talking to a couple that went that way and I'm still friends with a couple. So the right track is only up to you to figure out.
2006-10-25 12:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As childish as it may seem, I would stop talking to her. A lot of guys have been conditioned to associate the term "friend" with "I have, and never will have, interest in you". If I'm attracted to her and she pulls the "friend" card, I can do nothing but frustrate myself by associating with her afterward.
2006-10-25 14:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by miquin1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it this is you come on girl just tell him how you feel toward him u only get 1 chance at life don't live in reget if he knocks you back it's his loss give me a call :p
2006-10-25 12:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Alex aka 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that she was playing me. And that it's really dangerous to play with other people's emotions. I would still remain friends, but most people would stop talking to that person.
2006-10-25 12:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would really depend on what kind of a relationship we have at the time, i am wondering how he misread your intentions or if you were leading him on knowing you just wanted to be friends in the end
not nice to play with people or their emotions
2006-10-25 12:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by just my answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to be friends well she needs space let her have it. Keep talking if you like her and maybe she will decide in your favour
in time to come
2006-10-25 12:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would continue to be friends if that what she wants, i mean i will be hurt but i cant change someone feeling so i would just deal with it.
2006-10-25 12:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i would be devastated i don't know what i would do but does she really want to be friends or is she into some other guy
2006-10-25 12:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by kennybigmoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋