was killed in a car accident Sept 10, 2006- DUI. I hadnt seen him in 6 yrs, but spoke to him for the 1st time the day before he was killed-MYSPACE. I attended his viewing, but not his funeral(too personal) When I went to his viewing his parents were so excited to see me. His mom told me and my fiance that her son had such a crush onme growing up--somethingI never knew and kind of felt bad about-even though He did marry a pretty girl his age.Ever since he passed away, i keep having dreams about him. Nothingsexual or anything, but every now and again, he'll show up in my dreams. Today, I had adream about visitinghismom the day before the funeral-i never did that since i visited at the viewing. Why is it that I keep "dreaming" about him??? is it out of guilt for never being his gf 15 yrs ago??
2006-10-25 05:22:40 · 8 answers · asked by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
It's kinda like beginning to see a certain kind of car everywhere. One of them comes to your attention for whatever reason and suddenly they are everywhere you turn. Your attention has been drawn to this guy you knew and now he is everywhere. It's just because he happens to be occupying your attention right now. It will fade. Those cars were always there and they will always be there, but your attention just happens to be drawn to them right now. It happens with lots of things.
2006-10-25 05:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u seem to be an extremely emotional person. relax. u r worried and dreaming about him coz u feel maybe u cud have made some1 happy. but u did not know. and it is not ur fault. his mom told u what she did, coz she did not want u to misunderstand him. she wanted u to know that u were some1 special, and u will always be some1 special.
even if he had told u he liked u 15 yrs ago, a relationship may not have worked out. but yes u wud have at least known wht he felt.
if i were u, i wud treasure the special bond that is now binding u to his family. ur circle of friends just grew. for his wife too u r going to b some1 special.
2006-10-25 12:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by slmanl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not sure what the real explanation would be....seems open to interpretation...but when my friend Tom killed himself 2 years ago I kept thinking that I saw him everywhere I went for months....I'd see someone driving a car and think it was him or I'd see someone walking on the street and smile because for a second I thought it was him. I think our minds naturally go there because it's so difficult to come to terms with them being gone from our lives permanently....sorry for your loss, I know it's not easy!
2006-10-25 12:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people our own age start to die, death becomes very real to us, and it seems perfectly natural that you would have a dream about someone you grew up with who recently passed away. Don't try reading more into it than there is...you're probably going through shock and grief at the passing of someone you knew and cared about; that's all.
God Bless.
2006-10-25 12:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by lookn2cjc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the man of God and you will be helped. I guess the worse is coming.
2006-10-25 12:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's on your mind, so your subconscious is taking over to create dreams about him.
2006-10-25 12:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by AuroraDawn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps trying to tell you something but would suggest you go on with your life as he is on a different plane of existence.
2006-10-25 12:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please, It was HIS fault, IT was a dui right? serves him right
2006-10-25 12:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jibba Jabba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋