i live with my girlfriend and recently she just moans about everything for no reason. I guess she is unhappy but in the process she is making me unhappy.
I've had a few suggestive offers recently from girls in the pub after work who are fun and exciting and remind me of the relationship i used to have. Should i cheat or build my relationship back up. Will cheating help me make a decision to stay or leave?
2006-10-25 05:18:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are that unhappy then just leave, you don't need to cheat, you have obviously never been on the receiving end or you would not even be asking the question.
Instead of putting your effort into chasing toher women why not try and make your current relationship work.
2006-10-25 05:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by horsegal 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheat on her? Don't be a prize ****. Show the poor girl some respect, if you don't like her, grow a pair and tell her, but don't go behind her back. All that will do is hurt her, alot. Just because you are unhappy, it's no reason to make others unhappy. Stop being a coward, and resist being a ****, although that seems like it might be hard for you to do.
Just asking this question shows you have no idea about fellow-feeling. You disgust me. Anyone who treats a woman like a possession needs a serious kicking. In fact, how did you even get a girlfriend? I guess it's true, women are attracted to bastards.
Maybe you should ask yourself how you would feel if she cheated on you? I guess you wouldn't like it, so what changes in your head that would make it ok for you to cheat on her, but not the other way around? You're egocentric and narcisistic.
2006-10-25 06:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by willliewaggler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, from a female perspective...cheating would not be a good idea. Believe me the women in the pub are whores. What self respecting woman would give herself to a man she meets at a bar the first night? That is probably their weekend or nightly routine, you are not the only man they are being suggestive with, believe that! So if you are ready to give up your relationship, for probably one night of pleasure and possible a baby and disease to go with it, by all means cheat!
Right now it may seem you are in a bad relationship. But by cheating you are making this situation that can possibly be fixed into something worse. Don't add that extra drama. If you cheat, that is something extra for her to moan about. Then you may find that you do want to stay with her, but now she doesn't want you. Remember, what ever is done in the dark will come to light. Even if it does not, God is always watching you.
You can make the decision to stay or leave without cheating. A good relationship involves love, happiness, loyalty, trust, communication, compromise, and tolerance. Communicate your dislikes with her and give a chance to change.
2006-10-25 05:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing if you are both unhappy then leave, you can see as much women as you want after, without feeling the guilt of being a cheat. But if you think that you should give it a good try then do it, but don't cheat it just low and wrong even if you are unhappy.
2006-10-25 05:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Solitary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the point of cheating? You're obviously unhappy. But cheating is not the answer. Your just going to hurt her and cause more problems. If you seriously are thinking about cheating then break things off with your gf. Maybe take a break from the relationship.
I live with my bf and I'd hate for him to be having these thoughts without telling me. You've GOT TO talk to her. A serious relationship is hard and it takes some MAJOR work from the both of you.....But again...CHEATING IS NOT THE ANSWER!
Good luck to the both of you!
2006-10-25 05:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how sad that you even need to ask this question. leave her instead of cheating on her. no-one deserves to be cheated on. it's horrible and i've been there. if you don't love someone don't stay with them for the sake of it. you may find these other girls are being suggestive as they know you've got a girlfriend and they will see you as more of a challenge. you may find once you're with them that they aren't all fun and exciting all the time. if you have feelings for your girlfriend at all, talk to her, tell her to stop moaning about things and let her know that it's bothering you. if you can't or don't want to sort it out then you know what you must do!
2006-10-25 05:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Tickle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow a spine, buddy. Should you cheat? Cheating-bad. How can doing something bad help you find the right answer? And it's so easy to be cheerful when you know you won't have to put up with any crap the next day from that one night stand.
Stand up and make the decision, has this relationship gone as far as it can, or far as I want it to? Do I want to say or leave? You're looking for a guarantee. Leave this girl, date another and when she starts moaning, leave her for the next bright smile in a bar.
2006-10-25 05:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unhappy then you just need to leave. Cheating is not the answer. If you don't think it can be worked out then get out. Cheating is only going to make things worse. Good luck.
2006-10-25 05:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not cheat, what you need to do is if you really care for your girlfriend try to build your relationship back up, and well if that dont work out then leave, because why be in a relationship and not be happy about it.
2006-10-25 05:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..... the first thing you need to think is are you going to be more unhappy with out her?... once you cheat there is no going back. If you are seriously considering going elsewhere then u need 2 cut ties and do so. If any small part of you wants her then you need 2 sit down and work out whats makin you so unhappy..... and try your best to fix it. Good Luck.
2006-10-25 05:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋