My boyfriend and i was apart for about a week while he got things figured out and now that we are back toghter when he text me or emails me all he talks about is sex never about us anymore is it possible he only got back with me for sex. What should i do to find out if this is true or not.
2006-10-25 05:15:31 · 13 answers · asked by baby_doll66012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you go through tough times in a relationships, it's hard to jump back in where you left off. He may be scared to talk about the deep feelings he has for you with the break that you guys went through. Give him a little while to come back around. Or, simply tell him that you feel like all he talks about is sex and you're worried that that's all he wants from you.
2006-10-25 05:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is treating you in a very disrespectful manner. You deserve someone that notices you, that wants to please you, wants to do fun things together that you enjoy, etc. You've already figured this out...there's nothing else that remains to be done. He's the one with the problem. Put yourself first and make a decision to only date guys that want to please you. Finding a guy that only wants to talk about sex is not hard to do. Next time he texts something inappropriate, text him back and ask if the number you dialed was 1-800-PORN, and when he saids no, telll him to ask another girl the same thing he asked you or said to you, and to leave you alone. Or just stop accepting his calls and/or text messages. If he doesn't get your point, not worth any more effort on your part. Some guys can be such jerks.
2006-10-25 12:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gauruntee he's with you for sex. That's wht guys do....they take some time apart from you and they get horny so they come back. Unfortunately, it's hard to get him to get his mind right without giving it up simply because that's all he's really thinking about. If you want someone to love you and a relationship, you won't find it there...not right now anyways.
2006-10-25 12:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put the sex on hold until you can figure out the deal let him know you to fix your relationship first before you two have sex and see if he goes for it if it was not about sex then he will go for it if not then you know what to do
2006-10-25 12:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember...ALL guys are after your P*SSY!
seems like, that's ALL he is looking for, and subconsciously, that is what he is trying to re-lay to you...If you are fine with that, then cool...but I would let him know that he is just a play thing to you also, and that you would like the freedom to date other people. If he just thinks of you as a play thing, and he feels you care for him deeply, he will feel superior and feel glorified in his actions. Show no emotional attachment to him...i know it can be hard...but its better than him thinking your his sure fcuk! Go on dates, or if you feel you arn't ready for that, just tell him you are! Cancel "meet-ups" with him, and say you forgot about a previous date engagement you made with someone else. If he cares deeply about you, he will let you know he is hating life...if he is just thinking of you as his sure fcuk, he won't care. Oh, and PS never take a guy back that dumped you...EVER! MSG me if you like more tips...
2006-10-25 12:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bedazzled101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him use you, and disrespect you! Find out how he feels about you, why does it always have to be what he wants? what do you want, in this relationship? If you are not getting it, then you have to move on. You have to do what makes you happy, because you are a person too, and what you want counts!
2006-10-25 12:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all he wants is sex. You can do better. Break up with him and find somebody to care about you--the entire person.
2006-10-25 12:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by draws_with_crayons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As harsh as it sounds yes, he is probably just back for sex until he finds something real.
2006-10-25 12:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by brandon3451 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie he is in it for the sex. evidentally he thought about how good it was and didnt want to lose it. Maybe thats all that he is there for.
2006-10-25 12:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by cmkp2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
refuse to have sex with him for a while to see if he will call off the relationship
2006-10-25 12:20:42 · answer #10 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋