Theres this girl that i really like. We flirt with each other sometime but she still doesn't seem interested. It's like one day shes interested then the next she's not. Are females jus that way? (lol) What are somethings that you ladies find attractive or what would be something that gets your attention? Thanks
2006-10-25 05:08:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can tell you whats unattractive, someone thats TOO into you. Unfortunately, most women do not like a amn that works to hard to get our attention. You should be confident, and let her come to you.
2006-10-25 05:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the days she seems not interested, she is thinking about how you two were flirting before and you did nothing. She is waiting for you to take control and be a man. Make her believe you are seeing somebody and she will then become jealous and flirt with you more.
2006-10-25 12:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at least the younger females are just that way. Which sounds to me like she already likes you. As for your actually question, or at least the beginning of it....you can NOT make anybody do anything they don't want to, meaning you can't MAKE her like you! The only person that you EVER have control of now and for the rest of your life is YOU!!! Remeber that, because you can't control other people's behavior, only your own reaction to that behavior!!!
You're not superman or any other super being that actually controls people!!!! So you can't make anyone like you if they don't. And it's not worth trying if they REALLY don't like you for whatever reason!!! As far as this girl is concerned though, I don't think you've a thing to concern yourself with because it sounds to me from the few things you've typed here that she already likes you!!! And why don't you actually do a REAL test and maybe ask her out? Or to do something with you anyway, unless, of course, you wish to just come right out and ask her to her face...good luck with THAT!!!
:)
2006-10-25 12:15:43 · answer #3 · answered by raquelha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her then you should tell her. I cant tell you what to do because she may not like that, findout what she likes. All females are different so for ever female to tell you what they like may not get you anywhere. If you are too shy then ask her little questions that would focus on you as well as her so that it will not be so obvious. You know something like : Do you like...? What is your perspective of...? or Would you rather have (this) or (that)...?Something like that just spark a conversation with her.
And YES females are that way, most of the time is because we want to know where your head is at.
2006-10-25 12:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lexie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you cant get someone to like you it just have to be there. She might like you but is to shy or just a natural flirt. Or maybe its just your appearance because i like a person that dress nice. Over all the best thing to do is just ask!
2006-10-25 12:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by First L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-25 12:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by JoyDivision 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here it is....some days she flirts cos she is confident that u like her and the other days she isnt so sure so what u have to do is show her that ur really interested.
2006-10-25 12:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm...i think u better ask her out...
n talk 2 her more personally about ur feeling on getting couple...
erm...if she like u, she will listen to u...
or u could say to her that u like her 4 a long time...
that could be the way...u have to be brave dude...n put ur self-confidence more ok..
wish all the best at u...
2006-10-25 12:16:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe all she wants to do with you is flirt, Have you asked her out on a Date yet? if she says no then you will know.
2006-10-25 12:11:18 · answer #9 · answered by 'Cause I'm Blonde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she's interested in and talk to her about that.
2006-10-25 12:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋