so i have been dating this guy on and off for a year and i hate it when he is with other girls even if they are "just friends" and when i hear about them hanging out i always crack stupid jokes about them [[cuz they are all whores]] and then he walways says what you dont trust me? and its not that as much as i dont trust the girls! i get so jealous how do i stop?
2006-10-25 03:01:59 · 9 answers · asked by mypupismylove 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I can totally relate to the way you feel. You have to control your urges and be strong. Go inside yourself and search for the strength to not show how jealous you really feel. I guarantee you 100%, you will lose this guy completely if you continue to act this way. Just ask yourself....Is all of this jealosy worth losing a guy I am really into? It never is. If he is unfair and acts jealous toward you, you need to re-evaluate your situation together. Do you really want to waste your time dating someone on and off for another year if you know he sees other "friends"? I think you see the answer as clearly as everyone else can...now all you have to do is learn to accept it and move on. There are always bigger and better things in store for you if you have the courage to accept things you cannot change! Good Luck!!
2006-10-25 03:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by secsimamassita 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy on your part will drive him away from you. So stop doing that. Let him hang out with other girls...you cannot stop him from doing that, you sound like a very insecure woman, men who are strong and confident don't need women like u who are jealous and smothering. if u keep this up he will leave u.
So you need to just start trusting him and not call his friends whores..that is not only disrespectful it's also hurting your man. so just be cool OK?
2006-10-25 11:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a counselor, especially since you know you have a problem.
I wonder if an anger management class would help with this, because jealousy is basically anger.
2006-10-25 10:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Nosy Parker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the other girls might be more than just friends....life is too short to spend wasting on worry and heartache.....find a guy that doesn't need "just friends"...and only has thoughts and eyes for you...its called faithfullness
2006-10-25 10:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making fun of them and calling them all "who***" is immature and desperate on your part.
Stop picking guys who "hang out" with other girls.
2006-10-25 10:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are afraid. maybe you need to see what you are afraid of and admit to yourself what you feel. then it may get easier. jealousy can be thinkinking about all the fun they are having without you. so try doing things you enjoy when you are not with him and your mind will be filled with your own life. good luck
2006-10-25 10:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so possessive. If you are not married or engaged he has a right to talk to other girls. You will drive him away.
2006-10-25 10:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's something you gotta work on if you wanna keep this guy....if you keep accusing an innocent man then he'll screw around because he's already dealing with the consequences now
2006-10-25 10:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by bgbadwolf27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its okay , its pretty normaly for you to feel that way .
read some good spiritual books , i believe thats one way to get rid of jealousy .
try to see ur dates g.f's are jujst g.f's
cheers
2006-10-25 10:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by WaterGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋