why don't i like to listen to my favorite band anymore?

Question

i loved to listen to alabama up until my grandpa passed away in 2005 . they played angels amoung us at his funeral is that why i don't like it anymore even when other songs come on by alabama. i always turn the radio off why do i do this am i still greiving over his death

Answer 1

maybe you just got tierd of it. i think you should take a rest from it for a month and then listen to it and tell me how you feel you can conntact me on my email and it is [e-mail]!

Answer 2

I know where you are coming from. My best friend and I loved the band They Might be Giants. It's been five years since his death, and only recently can I listen to them without getting upset. I think music ties is closely with out emotions and brings things to the surface, if that makes sense. It would be perfectly normal to have a song bring back painful associations of the funeral and your loss. Grieving takes time, and in a sense never completely goes away. Be patient with yourself.

Answer 3

You shouldn't turn it off.
Do you ever notice how we do so much to avoid emotion?
It's almost like you are trying to ignore your feelings for your grandpa when you refuse to listen to a song and that's not good true?
Listen to it.. feel more.. remember more.

Answer 4

Listen to the Kreeps!

http://www.myspace.com/thekreeps...

Answer 5

We all outgrow certain music. This may be your own way to finish grieving. You may be ready to say Goodbye!

Answer 6

It bring back bad memories of the death of your grandfather.

Answer 7

ya. i think its best that you dont listen to it. but then again u can listen to it and think of all the good times u had with your grandpa (if you had any?)but it can also make u sad.or try lisining to other musik.