So, me and my current bf have been going out for 6 mo. I really really like him, it's just that lately he's been getting on my nerves even though i've told him that what he's been doing is annoying. He sometimes just acts really immature(we're both juniors in highschool) there is this other guy tho that i met at the beginning of the school year who is really good-looking, sweet, and he likes me back. He knows i have a bf and he said that my bf doesn't treat me right and then he tells me what he would do in that position. I'm scared to get with him because i don't want to screw up what me and my bf have. However, whenever i'm mad at my bf, getting fwith thsi guy sounds really good. how do i overcome these feelings...what do i do?
2006-10-25 02:54:55 · 10 answers · asked by danichika 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whatever you decide - make sure you don't cheat. That's just a horrible way to deal with the problem.
Communicate with your current bf better and if you cannot work things out - break up BEFORE you see anyone else.
2006-10-25 02:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by derek985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you'll like my answer here...
First off, if your boyfriend doesn't treat you right, you've told him you don't like something, and he keeps doing it, it might be time to break up with him...
now onto the other issue, liking multiple guys at the same time. What i would suggest be done in the situation is to be single for some time... this way you can examine what it is that you realy want in a relationship... say a month or maybe two of being single...
this way it'll allow your feeling for your current bf to fade a bit befor starting a new relationship...
i was in a very long term relationship, and when we broke up, i did the same thing, now i'm in a much better, much happier relationship with a wonderful woman, and i love her dearly...
you need to know what you want, and what you are willing to do befor you go into a relationship, if you try to figure it out along the way, it'll end up hurting both of you...
2006-10-25 03:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, it's just you're young and clearly not in love, so others will look good to you. .Now is the time to date many and have fun...don't get so serious. Be young - be free and don't get tied down to one guy. When you really DO fall in love, you will not be thinking about another guy any longer...you'll only have eyes for the one you love. I don't think you need to overcome anything - I think you need to break-up with your boyfriend and date other guys. Good luck!
2006-10-25 03:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never trust a guy who tells you how much better he is than your boyfriend.
They're always full of sh*t. Trust me on this. I get involved with girls who are already in relationships a lot. I ~show~ them how I'm better than their boyfriend.
But I ~NEVER~ talk sh*t about their boyfriends or what I'd do if I were them. If the only way he can make himself look good, is by trying to make your man look bad... he's a loser.
That's all you need to know.
2006-10-25 03:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay on course with your bf and grow up. Sounds like the both of you are immature. You need to sort out every problem that arises in your relationship and stop being vindictive when you get mad at him by being fickle.
2006-10-25 02:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your young dump the jerk date the new guy AND dump him too , then find someone new rinse and repeat until you are much older and actually KNOW what you want in a man. no one gets it right on the first few tries in anything even dating , good luck young lass
2006-10-25 02:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by glavendale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you re in high school nothing lasts forever. the feelings you're having for another are very normal. if you want get with this other guy you should. your attraction to him is your body's way of telling you that you that its time to move on.
2006-10-25 02:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by ponypuffgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You re having mixed feelings, you have to decide who is the best for you.Make sure you make the right decision.
2006-10-25 03:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by Xochitl C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have feelings for the other guy then obviously you THINK your in love but if you really were you wouldnt even thinkg of another guy unless its the one your in love with
2006-10-25 03:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by megan c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose one or the other.
2006-10-25 02:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋