there is a girl i have been talkin to....we where gonna hang out friday but she text me and said she couldn't cuz she was in a car wreck......lata i find out she was with her friends and she said her friends had her cell and where textin ppl on it.....but ppl tell me that she lies and says she is always talkin trash on me.....i want to believe her and i really really like her.....but i donno.....any help or advice?
2006-10-25 02:52:00 · 23 answers · asked by my name is jimmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Other fish in the sea dude. Cut her loose. Set your sights on someone who isn't running away.
2006-10-25 03:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute games with you is one thing... This isn't the way to do it...
Ask her, out of curiosity, "Well, that must have been a harrowing experience... " (casually look her up and down) Then say, "are you sure you're not hurt?" "How much damage was done to the car?"
"Oh all that was B.S." You said, "you were going to hang out with me on Friday Night..." "What was the reason you canceled out?"
If she's lying, just exactly what kind of foundation of a relationship are you planning on building up? A relationship based on lies is sort of like belief in Jesus Christ, if the Bible is False or has lies in it. What parts do you put your faith in? Yet, if the Bible is true, why are you listening to others when it is written there in black and white?
It all comes down to determining where the truth is. Did she have a car wreck? NO, why did she cancel you're time of hanging out together? If there was a car wreck, How did her friends get her cell phone to text you and others while she was supposed to be "hurt" or "shaken up" from the car wreck.
It's just my feeling, but from what you've written. You got your head buried in the sand and she's playing you for the class fool.
I'd limit my time with her if I were you. I think I'd try to find a more mature girl to spend time with. Something here just doesn't add up.
2006-10-25 10:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there- and run while you can - no reason to put 100% into someone that isnt putting any effort back towards you. Besides, once a liar always a liar.
And saying she was in a car wreck, and actually not, and then saying her friends had her phone and txting people on it? sounds like a whole bunch of B/S to me. How many times do frineds get a hold of your phone and text people randomly? Its not that frequent of a thing if you ask me.
2006-10-25 09:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by lunchboxmoss2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. It might be hard because you like her and you want to give her another chance, but she is not respecting you enough to give you the truth. This won't change. Do you want to worry about if she is being honest to you? What I have learned in the past is: the more you let go of something that isn't right, the more you open the door for someone that is right! Good luck!
2006-10-25 09:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damien come on is it that serious? If someone lies about something like that, their maturity level cannot be that high! If she really wanted to go on a date with you, she would have found a way to contact you. She is playing games. You should end this before you feelings get any deeper.
2006-10-25 09:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by KS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is that if someone starts with a lie, it isnt good. i think you should wait it out.. i understand you like her, and your heart may be preventing you to view her the way she really may be. You may just want to stay friends if anything, especially if she lies and talks behind your back, just wait till you fell 100% comfortable and then i guess just start hanging out a lil bit at a time. better safe then sorry.
2006-10-25 09:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by pchick261 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with her, then comfront her, and leave her in the middle of no where:)
No, absolutly don't do this, i was only joking:)
Realy, if she calls you back and wants to hang out, i would tell her that i'm sorry, but you were just in a car acident, and you wouldn't want to hurt her...
she'll ether understand and say another time, or she'll come clean and say she didn't get into an acident... depends on her answer to this if i would consider going out with her...
2006-10-25 09:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a rock. For her to tell you she was in a car wreck is messed up. Thats definately no thing to lie about.
2006-10-25 09:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her and really want to get with her than I suggest that you talk to her and find out if that's the truth what other people are telling you... If it's true then you don't need to be around people like that... She's too much trouble.
2006-10-25 09:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her back and tell her that you want to meet with her, then text her back about 5 minutes later and say you can't your dead.....then RUN
2006-10-25 09:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by nanners040477 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋