I'm 22, feel that I'm a fairy good looking guy, want a relationship, but havent had one since I ended my high school one over 4 years ago. I've had cases where a girl was interested in me, but I didn't feel the same way. I'm wondering how girls like to be approached without the guy seeming desperate or like an *** that just wants to get laid. Where do girls go to meet new guys? Is it out of line if I see a cute girl at say a supermarket or the store to approach her? What would I say so I didnt seem creepy?...too many questions!..any help?
2006-10-25 02:34:09 · 13 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think this has nothing to do with knowing what to say because I believe you already have an idea on what to say. I think you just need the confidence of the approach. You just don't want to be rejected and feel like and @ss and anyone could understand that but you have to look at it like this; life is all about taking those chances. You have to get over that fear of rejection because that is all it is. You may sound creepy to one girl but sexy to the next...you'd get over it. The best thing I can say to you about how to stop...pretend that you're not. It sounds stupid but give it a try. Pretend that you could care less if the next girl accepts your date or not. If she goes...SUCCESS...if not...shrug and move on to the next...it's the nonchalant method.
2006-10-25 02:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Yondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only thing about going to the supermarket to meet women is that you are most likely going to find married women, or women with kids, not saying that women with kids are bad, but at 22 you most likely are not ready for that kind of responsibility. Sometimes, you can meet single women at a local singles bar, but please whatever you do, don't use pickup lines and we instantly laugh you off, we some honesty, and truly, a "hi, my name is ......" and "how are you" work just fine with MOST women, depending on what they are looking for also. Also when approaching woman, a nice warm smile and an offer to buy her a drink can be a great ice breaker. You can also for a fee find several internet dating sites by going to pretty much any search engine and typing in dating site. Some have free services, but you can't do too much with them without paying, but I would recommend trying out the free side before paying for that websites services. Also, have you asked your friends about any girls they might know that might be interested? Of course, I wouldn't do this if you didn't trust their opinions, but sometimes this can lead to a great blind date or even the possibility of a relationship. As far as the approach goes, just make sure you are honest, warm and sincere, women will appreciate honesty more than cheese anyday! Good luck, hope you find what you are looking for soon!
2006-10-25 02:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jus develop confidence in you and start man. Advises and ideas can be given but the matter lies how u follow it and where.
First you jus give a look to the girl u like. See that ur look makes her understand that ur are attracted,mesmerised anything by her beauty. Jus keep giving looks but dont stare. After when she notices u looking at her jus turn around and pretend to be different. The girl will get confused. Continue this for a while. When u get noticed that she is watching u notch up the next gear and try to talk to her in a gentle way. After it will go by itslf. I used to do the same and have succeded but one thing I never spoke to a girl whom I looked at , thats my problem.
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2016-05-15 02:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to go approach her ( but first find out if she has a boyfriend)
Then maybe find her locker, and send her poems (anonymously)
If you see she fell for this then write in a poem that you should meet in a restaurant an then get to know her
2006-10-25 02:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by dayoridos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a deep breath, stop being a chicken and put yourself out there. But don't be a perv or a clingy guy. Chicks get turned off by that.
2006-10-25 02:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've seen guys pick up woman in the supermarket befor... it's all in your approch...
can't help you in getting over being a wuss, other then to say, if you want a relationship bad enough, you'll get over it. Woman like confidence...
2006-10-25 02:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know how to tell you how to approach a girl but where to find a place to meet a girl at is the club.
2006-10-25 02:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ariel S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol...hmm this is a hard one
Just walk up and say Hi...comment her or something.Some girls like it-My advice would be to learn parfumes and go from there..that always seems to work down here
2006-10-25 02:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by ~Brooke~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, and DON'T try so hard.
People can smell desperation in others.
Keep it light and fun.
2006-10-25 02:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋