My friend has been called "UGLY" all her life and no guys wants to date because she is being called that all the time. She is heartbroken and doesn't know what to do. I'm not apparently helping. So I'am asking out there what should I tell her, because I have said more than enough to try and confince she is beautiful and other things as well.She is not listening to me. I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want to give up on her either. She keeps saying that she should end her life, but I tell her not to, because I know that there is someone out there for her. I have even asked God to help her. Please can anyone help me with what to do and what to say. Anything would be wonderful, Just keep it possitive please. Thanks very much.
2006-10-25 02:31:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugly is a word meaning lack of appearance. Appearance, comes from sight. Beauty don't have to be seen by the eys nor detected by any of the five senses. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She is most likly gorgeous in more ways than anyone sees. More than you see. All you need to do is get her to see that beauty isn't looks. It can smear way past anything physical. Don't matter what it is. In more ways than you think, beauty comes in every shape, size, way, or form.
2006-10-25 02:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first hats off to u. U r indeed a wonderful friend to ur friend. jus ask her to cheer up man. A thing which looks beautiful may look very ugly to other person. Opnion always differs. There were many personalities who were been teased for their appearances but they didnt mind all those and have succeded well in life also they have got beautiful spouse. Its a fact. jus keep her cheering. If u like that girl and feel she is beautiful, then u better date her. Theres nothing wrong in that.
2006-10-25 10:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately when someone is depressed they chase people away and they need time alone to wallow..then someone like u fortunately comes along. however then u may get drained just from the constantly having to reassure her..I suggest maybe if you guys had enough money do a trip to a spa for some pampering and tell her your sorry she feels bad and u r doing your best to help her feel better and maybe take her to a wed nite church service when church is not crowded..usually God is the only one that can heal these deep wounds of depression.. the more depressed u r the more people need someone like u..keep encouraging her and pray cuz u will need the strength.
2006-10-25 09:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant convince her she is beautiful she has to feel beautiful she has a very low self esteem.You didn't say how old she is . Maybe try talking to her parents if she is younger there is no reason for anyone to want to die.Why don't you try getting her a make over a new hair cut , make up and new clothes can do wonders for a person. I feel very bad for her and I think she needs professional help I really don't think there is much for you to do.
2006-10-25 09:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by chrischrissychristine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty lies in the hands of the beholder so dont mind what people say she will get a loving man some time, remember there other ways to win a man is heart after all the beautiful ones r not yet born
2006-10-25 09:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by frank w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddhism
2006-10-25 09:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Friendly Dilshan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out for a makeover. it sounds shallow but i think she'll feel better if she knows she's taking steps towards overcoming her insecurity. and keep encouraging her. don't give her that inner beauty sh*t. everyone knows that books are judged by the cover first. good luck!
2006-10-25 09:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by janicebks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she is not ugly tel ll her to believe in herself and stoup letting people bring her self esteem doing tell her to look in the mirror and say to herself that i am not ugly over and over again till she believe it. and tell her don't worry about what boy's say cause theire is someone out ther 4 everybody and once she meet that person she is going to love it so tell her to hold her head up high.
2006-10-25 09:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by veronica m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋