A lot of my friends lately are losing their 20 something girlfriends to old guys. Is this some kind of crazy fad amongst you girls, or are you women really chasing the bigger wallets of these old men? It seems so very odd to me. I'm thinking it's the money. Then again, maybe grey hair and wrinkled skin are turn-ons to today's "it girl."
2006-10-25 02:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jumpin' Jack Flash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not the grey hair and fat wallets, it's the fact that the men our age are just immature. I personally am dating a 35 year old and am 25 myself, but have found myself with men in their 40's. I do not find older men disgusting at all, what I do find them is more sensitive to a woman's feelings in and out of the bedroom, more relaxed, more attentive and basically just more understanding of what a woman really wants out of a relationship. Im not saying all 20 something men are no good,because that just isn't true, but in my experience, I have found that guys in their 20's just aren't ready for the kind of committment that I need plus they can't deal with the fact that I have kids, most of them act like kids themselves. I do hope this helps, it's my reasoning for wanting to be with older men anyways!
2006-10-25 02:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to generalise. Am an older man, for example, and I see girls of your age like a kid, like a daughter, and I can't find it attractive in a relationship/sexual manner! But this doesn't mean that I can't say that a 19 yo may be pretty or not. There are men that can look at flirting with a younger woman as a ego boosting exercise, as somebody else said here, I suppose the thing is to find a balance when relating to younger or older people. At the end of the day it has to do with individual taste. I have seen men in their 20's with women in their 60's and viceversa. Maybe disputable, but who am I to judge?
2016-05-22 12:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys won't admit this, but girls no it as fact. Practically all guys in their 20's are immature assholes who lie, cheat and will screw anthing on 2 legs. They are insecure, so they pretend to be macho. Alot of them are also financially insecure. Most girls in their 20's and 30's want to be in a serious realtionship and 20 something guys just screw them over...it hurts and they get fed up with it.
I'm in my 40's, very lean, muscular athletic build. 6 figure income, home, 2 cars and money to spend. I'm polite, respectful and care about women's feelings. I get hit on in my gym often by gals in the 20's and 30's. These 20 something guys will just have to wait 10 years or so until the grow up emotionally and financially.
2006-10-25 06:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there are a lot of younger women who think older men are sexy. But it's not just that. And believe or not it's not always a money thing either. Women like older men because they are more mature and stable with their lives. A lot of times younger men aren't ready to "settle" down and most women are looking for this.
2006-10-25 02:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by It's a secret 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not the money men that old are mature and do not play silly games and not all men in there 40s look old you would be surprise how young some of them still look. My dad is 51 and he looks 35 (good dieting and working out).
2006-10-25 02:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by L@M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's a clue...i'm sure it's jus a phase we go through cuz we all wanna do it if we haven't and most of us try...i think it may be our
time-clock kicking us in gear to try more stable lifestyles which leads us to u guys. But when we finished with u (never seen one marry yet) we get out wits back bout us and go back to same age area guys...it's not the money it's the idea that u could be there evryday and night for us w/o fail .....security!!!!!
2006-10-25 02:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by des 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!!
Absolutely, no friggin way will i ever date a man that's way, way, way older than me. He will definitely die in a matter of time when we marry, he will never see his kids' when they are like 10 years old and definitely, he won't have the kind of stamina i need during ' a hot bedmatic session'.
But, i know girls date them for the money as a lady can date a dwarf for money. Who cares if you're young and broke when you can live in Paris, eat in Milan and wear Prada with the men but, nothing lasts forever. Even the pockets do get dry. But i would definitely not mind ''Old Hunks'' like Brad Pitt, George Clooney,e.t.c.
2006-10-25 02:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm 20 and no I don't find men in their 40s sexually attractive, the exceptions are Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp...lol.
2006-10-25 02:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe the prime time for a man is between 35-45. At that time, they are men, instead of boys.
2006-10-25 02:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Zooya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on the motive you have. am dating a man in 40s but to be honest i never ask him anything unless he gives me. the reason why am dating a man in 40s is because i don't want to be hurts again, lies and moreover too they are responsible and reliable. you will feel good when you are around them. i love my man so such and i can tell he is good as well as romantic. kisses. if wants me to be your friend email "Renel4Real@yahoo.com"
2006-10-25 02:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋