2006-10-25 01:32:15 · 23 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends how you value the friendship, do you want it to be long term................" friends of old are friends of gold "........don't spoil it ?
2006-10-25 01:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have sex, you change the relationship forever. However, just watch the movie When Harry Met Sally. If there is a strong friendship underneath it all, and if the sex if acceptable or better, it could be a groundwork for a lifetime of partnership and a good one at that!
relationships, especially love ones, don't work without a true testable friendship grounding It. I wish more people understood that. It is not sex first, but the other way around.
2006-10-25 01:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're both available, and like each other, why not? But to preserve the friendship in case things don't go well, I would recommend going slowly and respectfully, with an actual date first, to "try things on". That way if things get a little "weird" you can still back off before you do anything that would make you feel so uncomfortable that you would lose your friendship over it.
2006-10-25 01:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by 1heartbrokengirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been on both sides of that question. I have had two guy friends ( at different times in life) approach me after years of friendship. Although it was a hard decision because they where attractive and the thought was there, I declined both and I dont regret it because both are still really close friends to this day and one just recently got married and I was excited I got to be apart of that.
2006-10-25 01:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Laprincessa1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you have wanted to sleep with her before she told you this? Just because she told you this, doesn't mean you have to head for the bed...This will change the relationship, and may even put a strain on it once you've slept with her. Stay friends...
2006-10-25 01:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. its happened and friendship changes no matter what you say. you will never have the same relationship you did before. i regreted when it happened for me because i genuinely loved this guy as a friend. we always hung out and talked about everything. things changed after sex. he wasnt the same towards me. its definately not a good idea if your really good friends and you wanna keep what you have.
2006-10-25 01:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fancied? Fancied? Fancied what?
2006-10-25 04:43:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes without a doubt. Why not? At the end of the day if you felt the same way about her as she did you then what's the harm.
2006-10-25 01:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a big step and wil;l change the dynamic of the relationship.
I would have to think deeply on it, for there is no going back
2006-10-25 01:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - much as i love all my girlfriends I have no lesbian tendencies - so unfortunately Id have to reject her.
Now if a GUY friend told me that he fancied me - no I doubt I would - he wouldnt be a friend if Id fancied him!xx
2006-10-25 01:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say no but that is just me. At the end of the days it how you both fell.
2006-10-25 01:42:56 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋