MY HUSBAND IS A COP AND WORKS MANY HOURS. WE HAVE ABOUT 2-3 HOUR TOGETHER BEFORE WORK AND HE IS BUSY PLAYING WITH THE DOGS, FEW MAN CHORES, AND PLAYING THE PLAYSTATION 2. WHEN HE COMES HOME AT I MIND U 11 PM I WAIT UP FOR HIM AND STAY UP WITH HIM TIL HE GOES TO BED SOMETIMES 2-3AM. ALOT OF THE TIME THAT IS SPENT WATCHING TV. I FEEL NEGLECTED AND THAT HE HAS NO TIME FOR ME. WHAT SHOULD I DO OR WHAT SHOULD HE DO???
2006-10-25 01:22:11 · 22 answers · asked by donnies_sugarbaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Is he aware that you feel neglected. My husband is a shift worker and for the first year i felt a little like a widow. I explained to him how I felt and now we make sure that we have some quality familty time with the kids. he has been a shift worker for 5 years now, and I am used to him doing the hours. Just make the best of the time that you do have together, and make sure is aware of how you are feeling. Hope it all goes well for you!
2006-10-25 01:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by mountain girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where you are coming from my husband works 10 hours aday. And its hard on our relaytionship some time.... But if its one thing I have learned. That if he dont know how you feel how can he change.... From what he is doing..... First of all the game would have to go.... Grown men need to spend more time in life than fake life.... You need to make your self clear when it comes to what you want... And if he is not wanting to make the relaytionship work.... And be there for you...You are already alone if you know what I mean... As a women and a wife... Than think hard and long about your self do you want to feel this way always??????
2006-10-25 01:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by butterflystones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Mean Carleen 1000%! No husband in his right mind should ever neglect his wife.
2006-10-25 01:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...thats sad to say. well, according to some source relating to when ladies are negleted,there should be an external force causing that neglet. the question now for u is..have u been having series of hide and seek i mean quarreals with ur spouse? if yes,then u ought to meet him close after u might have given him a treat,lest say..his favourite meal,or his best sexual postuer imean the way he enjoys sex most...after that u get down to talk.. u can also find out if he is cheating on u. visit www.cheaters.com for more info on how to pin your spouses *** .Well if he is under any kinda of emotional stress,then u ought to find out. i think one of this would solve uer problem.
2006-10-25 01:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by SLYVESTER C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about it you need to work it out before you lose eachother completely. You dont want to get to the point that you have nothing in common. That is worse than being alone
2006-10-25 01:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tallie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. Or you could be ready for him when he comes home. Dress in something provocative, sexy, maybe naughty and tease the **** out of him, then go to bed. lol good luck
2006-10-25 01:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wthing5.... i hope you never marry, you are an idiot. to the original question... he has gotton into a "rut" you have to make time for yourselves even if only an hour or two a week try to do some of the things you used to do when dating , marriage is hard work. good luck
2006-10-25 01:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by donna l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need friend to share my feelings?
2017-04-02 01:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. He has to understand that you have your own needs and if this doesn't work, look for professional advice. Good luck.
2006-10-25 01:26:05 · answer #9 · answered by candywhiteandrew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to your husband about this cause if you are feeling this way and don't tell him well how is he going to fix it
2006-10-25 01:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋