ok theres this guy who is in love with me and i need to brake up with hom cuz he is always treating me like **** and i have no way of doing it i have never broken up with any one they always dump me i need to find some one else because this guy keeps on following me he walks to my classes to make sure im there he trys to tell me what to do and i dont know why i never wonted him to be so in love with me please help me how do i brake it off with out hertin him
2006-10-25 01:09:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way to break up with a person without hurting him. But you must do it ifr you don't love him, and especially if you find him to be controlling and abusive. He will sooner or later "graduate" from verbal abuse to physical abuse and then it may be even harder to rid yourself of him.
btw -- he's not "so in love with you". His behavior is possessive and controlling in an unhealthy weay that has nothing to do with real love.
I'd break up wih him in a very public environment- perhaps with your friends or his friends present as witnessess. IT may take a public embarassment to shake him up, and having witnesses is a good thing. After that, if he pursues you, you should report his stalking behavior to school officials or the police.
2006-10-25 01:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he treats YOU like crap why worry about hurting his feelings? And it is better if you dump him than him dumping you, be the better one and get out of the situation. He is too controlling and this doesnt mean he is in love with you.
2006-10-25 01:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask YOURSELF why?
Weight problem?
Always Complaining and Nagging
Oral sex to completion?
Anal Sex?
Outdoor
Public/Risky
Spanking
BDSM
Contented and happy dogs do not stray, never say no to anything anytime anyplace anywhere with anybody he wants..and I guarantee a long happy and fun life...or listen to the religious loonies and puritans on her or the bitter never getting or had any individuals that answer..and you will end up end up fat, alone, depressed and bitter, wondering how all the other women manage it........and writing answers on here like some of the ones above and below!
2006-10-25 01:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's a good opportunity for u to dump someone. Just tell him that you have been thinking abt this relationship and u don't think it will work. Explain truthfully to him. It will hurt less.
2006-10-25 01:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry to much about hurting him. He'll get over it. Just tell him that you don't want to see him anymore. I'm tired of the way you treat me. I deserve better. Its obvious you don't trust me and I am tired of it. Get to Steppin'... Its not nearly as difficult as you are making it. He'll live thru it, Honest he will...
2006-10-25 01:15:38 · answer #5 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, you don't enjoy being followed, and you do not appreciate being told what you can and cannot do, he is not your parents, and ask him to please understand that you just are not into him the way he appears to be into you.
If he persists, I would tell a trusted adult or your parents about the situation.
2006-10-25 01:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by soulful thinker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some aikido lesson, u may find the answer in your training.
it seem from ur question ur still don't have clear view about your relationship.
2006-10-25 01:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by sly r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if hes treating you like **** than dont think of how to do it just do it no woman deserves to be treated like that
2006-10-25 01:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont put up with it girl! you can get better! he dont deserve you!
just do it girl! he aint worth it!
2006-10-25 01:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by *cutie with a bootie* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋