He was in the hospital in May of 2005 and told me that he was positive on my daughters prom day, from then on I was getting tested, and always came up negative. I had tests done every 3 months 4 a year and finally 1 yr. later the test came back positive on 6/5/06. I was devastated!!!! When I approached him with the results he laughed in my face! Of course I had to tell my children, who hated him from day 1 & didn't want us together from jump, but I didn't listen to them, I really loved him with all of my heart & was even willing to do anything 2 b with him, & he turned out 2 b the worst thing that ever happened to me. So far I am healthy enough that I don't have 2 take any medicine 4 it. & then after a while I found out that a lot of people knew that he had it and no one else warned me. Now he is going around screwing other women in the Projects where we live even a woman that has full blown AIDS who is a crackhead whore of the hood who he was with when I first took notice of him.
2006-10-25 00:55:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Infectious Diseases
Sorry to hear what happened to you. As for forgiveness, ask for the Lord's guidance. We must forgive if we want His forgiveness as well.
I'll pray for you.
2006-10-25 01:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by L96vette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't forgive him as if he KNOWINGLY subjected you to the possibility of getting AIDS he is not worth forgiving. If he is still "screwing around" and exposing other women to the possibility of infection he is a public health risk and CAN be locked up for this reason - call the police - even if its anonymously. BTW: AIDS is no longer the death sentence it once was, and it appears that the possibility of a cure may even be possible within the next 5 years. I recommend that you might want to talk to your doctor(s) about taking medication right now so that you can suppress the virus beginning immediately. Don't forgive this guy - lock him up!!! It is also unforgiveable that some of your "friends" knew had HIV and didn't tell you - those people should no longer be considered your friends - just people that you know, and do not deserve the time of day from you. For them to be silent on this matter is also unforgiveable. I hope you get the treatment you need, and eventually are cured. Best of luck - Paul H.
2006-10-25 08:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How devastating this must be. How can anyone understand who has not had the experience. It could happen to anyone.
Years ago, before Hawaii became a state, "gays" there, were required to wear a badge, indicating that they were gay. Little known.
The sobs like this one should all be made to wear a badge. Never happen. It would violate their rights, huh?
Of course, everyone elses rights don't mean a sh**. They should be registered and made public. HIV is as dangerous as any communicable disease. Can anyone imagine "quarantine" these days? For anything?
I hope that a cure is found soon and you may benefit before it becomes any worse.
God bless.
2006-10-25 08:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your local health Representative, the ones that gave you the tests. Make sure you have a positive result and than tell them your story.
You shouldn't have to do any walking Honey. He gave you a disease just as if he shot you with a gun and that's illegal. He just committed a second degree felony and in some States can get a life sentence as he deserves it.
There nothing you can do now except remember what he did and that you don't do this to someone else. Safe sex, doctors appointments and drugs.
2006-10-29 07:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the heck do you want to stay there!! For gawd's sake.
Forget about worrying about forgiving the guy. You have to preserve your life, for your children's sake! Worry about yourself and the kids
2006-10-25 08:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take legal action against him. He is infecting unknowing women. Get a hold of a lawyer asap.
2006-10-25 08:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by jen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he try to took ur kids mother away from them,,how hell life is without a mother to kids,,,,and still u wanna forgive him,,,,,forget him,,,,,,go on with ur life,,stay health y and alive,be a good mom
plz do mention,why he purposely waited to give u hiv,,did in past something happened between u too,looks like he took revenge,and if so,,,,,,,,then wat was the cause?
2006-10-25 09:01:15 · answer #7 · answered by shazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think your life will be better without him, your kids will be with you in the future, not him.
Erase him, it is hard but worthy.
2006-10-25 08:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u wan to 4give him anyway? hes a jerk.
2006-10-25 08:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by vio 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋