I am so afraid to lose her that I freak out when I see that she enjoys spending time with other people. I know it comes from low self-esteem and nothing else because she loves me - but what do i do? The fact that I can send other people to h.. if she would ask me and she can not 'proves' to me in my head that subconsiously she might prefer them. Besides i know that there is a constant voice in her head that our relationship is 'not right' (she goes to church) and it might prompt her to be more responsive to the 'right' ones..
2006-10-25 00:24:14 · 5 answers · asked by mwade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust her ---- she is with you not someone else
going to church is not going to change her sexual preferences
relax and enjoy the ride
2006-10-25 00:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, she knows what she has in you and seems that she is very happy with you. Think of it like this, can she find another man as good as you? Of course not because you are that special someone that makes her heart skip a beat. So if you feel jealous or insecure think of that and you will be fine.
2006-10-25 07:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is allowed to spend time with other people, you cannot expect her to spend every waking moment with you, that is unhealthy and unreasonable. She is not sleeping with the other people, she is associating with friends. Grow up, and realise that you do not own her, you cannot tell her what to do, and she has a right to her own life.
2006-10-25 07:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, if things are meant to be you guys will be together. Being overpowering will just put pressure on her and your relationship. It is not a good thing so try to loosen up.
2006-10-25 07:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exaclty. By not being jealous. Get yourself a man and do the same so that way, you're even.
2006-10-25 07:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋