I've been dating this guy for about 5months now and it feels like love i'm so inlove with him and it feels like his inloves with me too but the thing is that we met on a chat program and we've never seen each other we ar about to see each other for the first time next week and i'm scared if maybe when we meet each other inperson his not gonna like me or maybe the other way around i'm just so scared that things will change after we meet and a good thing will end. Please help
2006-10-25 00:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by nacegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only one way to find out girl.
2006-10-25 00:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Calm down. THINK. You haven't met him yet. You have no doubt exchanged all sorts of information, views and opinions. You have responded to each other. But you must remember, you have responded only at a distance. And to someone you have never met before. It can not possibly be love.
What you are experiencing is a feeling of intimacy, but it with someone you do not really know. You cannot really know this man until you have met him many times and spent a significant amount of time in his company.
The feelings you are experiencing are quite real, but you must bear in mind the fact that they are capable of leading you into a dangerous situation. You may end up trusting someone who could disappoint you or even do you harm.
Tread warily. Do not trust these feelings.
And for heaven's sake, when you meet this man do so in a public place and ensure there are lots of people around. Don't be foolish, now.
2006-10-25 00:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is infatuation. You cannot love a person, who you have never had any one on one contact with. Relationships which lead to love trake a long time to develop, or it winds up in the toilet.
2006-10-25 00:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not face reality.
what is the use of living in an imaginary world?
one day this had to happen.
Think positively.
2006-10-25 00:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember looks deminish but a good heart is for ever. Now if it is love that feeling would already be ther and you would know it .
2006-10-25 01:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by kimberly f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. dont meet him ever. its not going to work out. and just leave the virtual world at the computer. be wise. date someone u know, in real life.
2006-10-25 00:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by roman_fantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to begin with it is certainly not lust b/c you have never seen him face to face.....my advice would be if your going to meet go to a public place mayb with a freind
2006-10-25 00:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by :Just Me: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love its just a lust. i think that guy needed a girl 4 timepass b'coz if his nature is cool then he definately have a girl friend. he is flurting with u...
2006-10-25 00:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Lover of Hilary Duff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to find out you cant spend the rest of your life with a fantasy
2006-10-25 00:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months without seein eachother how does that work?if u don't lik him just leave!!
2006-10-25 00:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋