she was lesbian would it put you off or encourage you ...??
Just having a chat about it in the office and would like your thoughts thanks x
2006-10-25 00:08:19 · 31 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No i am not gay just after some opinions thanks
2006-10-25 00:25:13 · update #1
Encourage me..........
Reckon I'd love it...
2006-10-25 00:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she was an out and out lesbian, I mean no men at all, then that would put me off trying to chat her up as I'd just end up annoying her. But if she said she dabbled both ways, then that would encourage me. Because, like most men, the thought of going with a lesbian turns me on some what. x
2006-10-25 12:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry not a boy but if a girl told me she was a lesbian it would encourage me!
2006-10-25 00:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by punkyboygirl_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious the relationship was?
If it was casual and we had not been together long I would ask if I could join in.....
If it was a serious relationship and she told me after a long time of being together, I would question the relationship because trust is everything and cheating with a man or a women is just wrong.
2006-10-25 01:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was a lesbian there would be no point in being encouraged, but if she was Bi and I was attracted to her I would be encouraged.
2006-10-25 01:43:22 · answer #5 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn`t put me off as such but i`d respect the fact that she`s a lesbian and not interested in guys in that way. saying that, i went to a party some years ago and there were a group of lesbians there and my mate persisted in chatting one of them up and could u believe that he actually succeeded in pulling her. there`s nowt queerer than folk!
2006-10-25 00:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, this is a tough one... i'm in a relationship with a woman that first told me she was a lesbian... we started to get to know each other as friends, then i guess she was interested because she came out and told me that she was realy Bi...
it realy depends on the whole situation, when we first met i was single, but wasn't realy looking for a relationship with this woman... Now I couldn't immagine life without being with her...
2006-10-25 00:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex should have no part in friendship ive have friends that are gay and lesbians and im married and have been for 24 years so what they like is there bussiness
2006-10-25 00:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't put me off my lunch (which I'm eating right now), but it would stop me pulling a move on her in a nightclub.. no point if she's not into blokes.
Having said that I'd probably ID that her pheromones were not smelling that great (to me), and not move in on her anyway.
Smell is important... I often check out my girlfriend's scent when I'm kissing her neck mmmmmmmm............
2006-10-25 00:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by gareth_bancroft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly my first reaction would be to get a threesome out of it (it's just a man's nature) but after really thinking about it I wouldn't want nothing to do with that except friendship.
2006-10-25 00:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Young Vito 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if shes lesbian,i would not have no reason to be encouraged but if she was bi then i would be encouraged
2006-10-25 00:10:55 · answer #11 · answered by k70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋