i want to married a beautifull girl and i love here and i want to be with here forever but the problem is iam sorry about that she is in france and iam in lebanon what ican do i dont have money to go france and she dont have 2 coz she is study i want some one help us thanks for your help ?
2006-10-25 00:01:16 · 9 answers · asked by funny_ramy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'd wait until I got out of "grammer" school......
2006-10-25 00:04:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if the arranged couple marries...they really dont know each other. someone does and arranges the two to be married. and because their marriage is arranged...to not try to make the marriage work is the slap the faces of the people who arranged the marriage and so you see it is a different arrangement altogether. it is more of a 'marriage' contract. it is not a 'love' contract. here in the west, some who marry with a preconceived notion that love will last or be continuously happy, they are misguided. they dont know what a 'marriage' contract entails. they dont realize 'marriage' as a contract and has 'rules' to abide by that hold the couple together. in the arranged marriages...the contract and rules are abided by more and mediation from family input when the couples become unhappy...they refer to the 'vows' and persuade the couples to regroup. here...marriage seems to be more or less unequal because women work outside the home and at home and the men expect or hope that she'll care for everything as the old fashioned women did and that yet still have the same basic male instincts of infidelity during marriage and possessiveness and insecurities of other men looking at their wives and the other women are trying to get the married man for herself. its a whole nother culture really. its like comparing apples to oranges. lot of the women in western culture are encouraged to put their kids in daycare and let others take care of their kids which means anybody can shape the child's moralities and sensibilities and decisions in life. this causes married couples to lesser bonds with their kids, two jobs cause lesser encouragment for the predominately male maturity as a protector over his wife and family. its just different. western marriages are affected by so much more than the 'arranged marriages' of a completely different culture and morality.
2016-05-22 12:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love will find its own way!
Just leave the things for now because she is still studying. On your side why not save money little by little, who knows one day you have enough funds to go there.
For the meantime, calls and internet chatting will help to both of you.
2006-10-25 01:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her finish her studies, and you get a job and/or finish your education if you are studying as well. If the love is true, you can both wait and be together forever. But if you cannot wait to finish those things, then it was not meant to be.
2006-10-25 00:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both make a decision now. Get a job and earn some money and get married.
2006-10-26 17:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Zakir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get settled if u marry her were will u stay you need money. do some job get money and till then let her conplete her study. and then go ahead get married
2006-10-26 19:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can wait.
she may visit you someday but
do recognize her.
marriage seems possible.
get connected with her in mail or via some other media.
let her visit your country. tell her about your country.
2006-10-25 01:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by pdotsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just figure it out
2006-10-25 00:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by selena m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BETTER YOU SEARCH FOR ONE GOOD FINANCIER.
2006-10-28 22:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋