my girlfrend and i are like magnets except we are mpushed away from eachother.we have two friends to help us but neither can convince us to get over our shyness witsh is stopping us from doing ANYTHING.how can i get over my shyness and finally stop her crying before its too late.
ps talking in a mirror doesnt work
2006-10-24 23:12:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way im a fast runner and not at all a wimp
2006-10-25 00:14:00 · update #1
Dear If u love her then u have to...just think if she will leave you just becoz of this just think of that moment n i m sure u'll get all the courage to act okie...I know its easy to say n hard to live but if u have to then u have to....Best of luck
2006-10-24 23:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I think you should try talking to other people, all kinds of people as practice. Try talking to her on the phone first, build a good rapport then try again while together. Try hanging out together in a group for several times as well. Just push the comfort zone more and more, just relax it'll work out. Also go to dates where its casual with a focus of entertainment like a comedy club or a concert, where you two can just be together and enjoy. When things are getting better, try the movies next, then ask her what she thinks of the movie and I guess, take it from there. Everything will be fine. Good luck!
2006-10-25 06:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to get over it is to try your hardnest not to be shy, let her know how you feel, and that you two can openly talk all the time, make sure its not a trust issue if it is then thats a bad sign in a relationship. Communication and trust is the key. Both parties gotta play the part too. Best of luck.
2006-10-25 06:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by shortie_49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you, 11?
If you're in college, take a shot of tequila. That will bring out the macho man in you. If not, then go do some push ups and think that if you dont do anything she will think you dont find her attractive. And guess what, she'll be looking for someone else.
2006-10-25 06:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a story of your engagement with some other girl and see the reaction.
2006-10-25 06:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that is so immature--just say what's on your mind!
2006-10-25 06:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋