My friend is 45 years old, has two sons 27 and 23. She has this mad infatuation with a 25 year old guy. He is not interested in her and she is just not getting it. We tried to tell her it was no good and now she is not speaking to us....what to do?
2006-10-24 13:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by auntynoall 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He did tell her he is not interested and she was in tears half the night.
2006-10-25 17:55:55 · update #1
I would just stay out of the situation. Let the cards fall were they will. This includes any relationship. Most of the time when you give advice to friends about thier love life, the friend almost always chooses the boyfriend/girlfriend which creates tention between the two friends. By the way, I would just tell your friend that your sorry for hurting her feelings and say no more about the situation.
Good luck
2006-10-24 13:47:30 · answer #1 · answered by october1972 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-24 20:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy to run and never look back.
2006-10-24 20:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she gets her heart broken just be her friend. Try not to say "I told you so." right away till she's healed. We all make mistakes.
2006-10-24 20:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by johnknight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll have to ride it out. she can't help who she is attracted to, she can only manage that attraction and maybe she just needs to learn the hard way.
2006-10-24 20:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done your best...Leave her. In time it will sink into her brain that the guy is just not that into her...
2006-10-24 20:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really isn't interested, he should tell her.
2006-10-24 20:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her to find out on her own, and be there for her when she does.
2006-10-24 20:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste time talking about it.
2006-10-24 20:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋