What Should i do about it
2006-10-24 03:44:04 · 9 answers · asked by desi07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im 18 years old
2006-10-24 03:51:16 · update #1
she does drugs
2006-10-25 03:12:06 · update #2
Its cause she loves you. Stay with her cause she loves you and does not want you to move out. If you are the only child and she has no husband, then she will be lonely and deppressed and might suicide. If there is a problem with staying with her, then tell her your problems with staying her and she might change and solve the problems.
Anyway, 18 years is so young. If she has noone other than you, then she will be sad. She is your mother and if she says that she will die without you, then it shows how much she loves. You're lucky to get a mother like that.
Good luck and hope you make a good decision
2006-10-24 04:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready to and have the means to support your self then its time for you to move on. You can still be close to your mom and make sure she has what she needs, call her often, she should be alright andyou will feel ok that your still around here and there and dont forget to get together for shopping, lunch or somewhere enjoyable. You dont have to do it all the time, just keep in touch.
2006-10-24 11:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by rzblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your Mom is playing on your sympathies. My mom is the same way and I am 32. I have lived on my own since I was 17. You just have to be honest. Say," mom, I have to have my own space. I will always be here for you but I need to be independent." Moms can be drama queens you just have to know when to stand your ground.
2006-10-24 10:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by lesley p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a close relative you can talk to I'd start there. Sometimes another can come up with a idea you never thought about. It's not fair to you to have to worry about moving out but since you never really said what her problem is it's hard for one to tell you to move out anyways. good luck to you.
2006-10-24 11:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she suicidal? if she is, she needs help. Suggest calling a hotline to her or attending therapy sessions. I just lost a realtive to suicide and would give ANYTHING in the world to have bring him back. He wasn't on medication and never saw anyone. She may need professional help, dahling. When people say they are going to do it, they will. That was my mistake with him. I didn't actually think he would do it.
2006-10-24 10:47:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. You can not put your life on hold waiting for someone to die. She will die eventually weather you are living there or not
2006-10-24 10:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never leave home on a sour note. Parents never want babies to go even if those babies are adults. One day it must come to pass. Parents dread that day and hold on for as long as possible. Leave on a happy note. Don't burn those bridges you may one day want to cross again.
2006-10-24 10:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she unstable? Your gonna have to move on with your life at some point and shes gonna have to accept it.
2006-10-24 10:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about this?????? And how did she react??? How old are you??? There are many things to consider here,,,,
2006-10-24 10:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋