I feel neglected and lonely. This guy that said he was interested in me doesn't call me on weekend. Sometime we only talk three times a week. At first, I wanted to be single and didn't wanted to be in a relationship to avoid the hurt feelings. But somewhere in time, I fell for him. Now I really miss him. I really want him to call, but he doesn't. Why don't guys ever call a girl? I don't want to call him bcause everytime I called him on weekends, he is busy doing something and he never calls back and I end up feeling hurt. When we kiss, I feel very passionate, but is he feeling the same thing??? how do i know for sure? I don't want to ask him cause I'm scare it might turn him off. Please help me... how do i make him miss me? how do i get him to think about me more?
Thanks!
2006-10-23 05:57:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can make a guy miss you more if that person really loves and care for you.
thanks for those that has sincere answer, but for most of you that gave negative answer, please don't do that to others, yall ruin people's relationship that are really going well. dumping a person is not always the answer in a relationship.
For those that have similar questions, pls wait, time will tell you how that person feels for you.
I guess i basically answer my own question.
The feeling of neglected and loneliness is there because there are miscommunication of feelings, so if you get this right, everything will work out fine.
2006-10-25 06:36:57 · update #1
Break up with him and date me. I'll treat you like royalty. Email me at mall_blue_dragons@yahoo.com
2006-10-23 06:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a relationship once w/ a guy that was the same thing (except we rarely talked 3 times a week. it lasted like that for about 3 months and then slowly he started calling a little more and we hung out alittle more until we were together the majority of the time (over a 1 yr time span) he was scared of getting hurt and wanted to take his time. it worked. it ws the best relationship i ever had (probably the healthiest too. i messed everything up and he and i split. anyways, this could be the case w/ your guy. otherwise he's using you and you should move on. or get invloved w/ other things/people so you are not so focussed on him.
2006-10-23 13:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by simple1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Dear Rose, do you find the response you want when he kisses you back? Why don't you talk about your feelings to him? Talking is good. If he likes you and wants something more out of you both then it's going the way you like it. In case he says there is nothing much to this, move on and you will meet new people. Never get desperate. Keep your self-worth. It makes people respect you. You will get better men in your life too. If you are very lonely, join a swim club or gym or aerobics class or anything else you are interested in. You will meet lots of people. You will love seeing new people and interacting with them.
2006-10-23 13:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be with someone who makes you feel so conflicted?
First of all, when you told him that you wanted to be single, he probably detached himself from you from that point on. Who wouldn't? I mean, you DID tell him 'no'. You gave mixed messages. Too confusing!
A main point: A guy who really likes you will NEVER be too busy to spend time with you. Ever. (I'm in a similar situation and he's losing interest so it's time for me to move on.)
Finally, you can't make someone miss you. That's a feeling that comes naturally. BUT, if you wanna know...disappear. Don't call him, don't email him, don't have 'the talk' with him (relationships shouldn't need a sales (aka 'why you should be with me' pitch). Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-10-23 13:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by LuvsMochaCoffee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That does not sound too good. If he really has feelings for you he would make time to call you and week days or weekends would not matter.
You cannot make someone miss you. If a person is in love with you, they will miss you. If a person does not feel that spark, then you cannot make them feel it.
You need to look in his eyes and see if the love is there. If you do not see it, then you need to discuss your relationship and see if it is real and two sided.
Take care and Good Luck,
Troy
2006-10-23 13:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HIM. you can't make a guy miss you. He's a player. or he is committed to someone else. Point is, if you don't wanna get hurt more, stay out of his life. move on. This kind of guy signals RED LIGHT. He will just hurt and hurt and hurt and hurt you. There's nothing you can do to make him do the things you want him to do. Because the feeling isn't mutual.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." (eleonor roosevelt)
2006-10-23 13:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make yourself lonely and feel neglected. Girl he's playing that age old game.
Move on with your life, don't get caught up in his maddness.
2006-10-23 13:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Renee F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a book called "He's Just Not That Into You". I'm not being a smartass. It's a real book, and it may help you. Honest. And then after your done reading it, you can thank me.
2006-10-23 13:02:39 · answer #8 · answered by TheOneVersion2.0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Make sure he knows how you feel. Guys are pretty much idiots when it comes to picking up clues, or picking up if women are feeling a certain way. Make sure he knows how you feel.
2006-10-23 13:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by nice_guyminnesota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.. he is probally enjoying single life.. and if you want a reationship date around.. it will come.
2006-10-23 13:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by Virginia1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋