He said he had those about 3 months before he met me. I didn't know this until about 1 month after I had slept with him. He went to the Dr about 4 months ago to get them burnt off. They have grown back within the last month. He was supposed to get them burnt off 3 times, but never went back for the #2&3 because he was scared. He never even talked to the doctor of a possible STD. He just told the doctor to get rid of them. Well, they came back and he just went back to the Dr. and hesaid they were warts. I found a few tiny bumps between my vagina and anus and I am going to the Dr. tommorrow to get them looked at. I am suspecting that they may be warts. My fiance says that if they are that he is so sorry. I am not sure how to feel if they end up being warts. He asked me if I would still love him. Of course I still love him. I guess I just don't know what to think or if I should be angry with him. He admits that he should have asked the Dr. more questions from start, but too scared.
2006-10-20 15:52:17 · 10 answers · asked by lc 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
HPV (the virus that causes warts) is VERY common. It's coming to you as a shock right now, but don't worry.
Get your warts treated and make sure you get a pap smear done every year! HPV can be really bad for women. It can cause cervical cancer, which is the second most common cancer in women. As long as you get your yearly pap smears though you should be just fine. Pap smears are the best thing a women can do to detect any abnormal cells on the cervix which can lead to cervical cancer.
Some people are even able to get rid of the virus. There is no "cure" but most people are basically able to fight off the virus. They can always contract it again though in the future.
Check out this site for more information:
http://www.cdc.gov/std/HPV/STDFact-HPV.htm
2006-10-21 05:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cokie "Think long and hard on this" doesn't that sound ironic? LOL Seriously, I think most of the people here are right, it will be very hard if not impossible to increase his drive. Most likely he is under stress, or somehow he lost interest. If anything, this question reminds me of how generalizations and prejudices for each of the sexes are just WRONG. Didn't the man ALWAYS had to be ready for sex?. Well, I read so many questions here daily, about how the husband doesn't want to have sex anymore (same old same old for women anyway). So, let this teach us, there are no rules in relationships. If sex is REALLY that important to you, get a vibrator, watch some porn and masturbate. I know it is not the real thing, but if it is about a physical need (who says a woman CANT have a physical need for sex?, it happens as well), then it may help a bit. Often men hate to be pressured to do anything. That really sucks. However, think about the bond that brought the two of you together. Was sex really a part of why you married him?. If it so, I'm sorry to say your priorities were wrong. Don't get me wrong, I think good sex is important in a relationship, but it comes more of an expression or an "aftermath" of closeness, not the other way around. So, if you don't feel close to him or dislike him, very rarely good sex will occur. So a first good way is to get close to him on another level: do you enjoy conversing with him?, watching a movie, go out to the park together?. Normally these are the things that bring a couple together, and THEN comes the sex. Nowadays people think sex should come like mechanical, while I support the idea that it is more of a "free" aspect of loving in a relationship. I personally hate it when my husband reaches me out late in bed after a day which we didn't spend together, or didn't do many things together. Also, when you make love, focus on HIM, how much you love him, that way sex becomes and expression, of your love, and does not only go after the physical sensation. I know this doesn't sound as fun as it should be, and you are right, sex should be fun, however I'm afraid it is a more mature way of looking at things. If you are REALLY not into the guy anymore, I'm afraid you could suggest swinging, or perhaps, even get a divorce. But like Cokie said, try to ponder well about this. And, get close to him in a way that is not physical. You will see.
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2016-04-27 21:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up HPV it's a type of virus that causes warts. Looking at pictures of it is some nasty stuff, I'd consider getting my stuff cut off if I had it but it'll probably fall off anyway.
http://www.niaid.nih.gov/factsheets/stdhpv.htm
2006-10-20 15:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds a lot like HPV to me. It can come back after they are removed. I think one in four people get HPV in their lifetime. When you go to the doctor, make sure you discuss cervical cancer. A few types of HPV can cause cancer- not to scare you, but make sure you bring it up! HPV is really common and I think the two of you should talk to your doctors about how to prevent spreading it back and forth, and the best methods of treatment.
2006-10-20 16:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Amy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Dr and get checked for everything. Obviously he had unprotected sex with someone and it doesn't matter if it was before you. Good luck.
2006-10-20 16:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't know and could have gotten it from anyone since the virus can lay dormant for years. Just get it checked out with your OB/GYN.
2006-10-20 16:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by belly dance mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is very irresponsible and has no regard for anyone Else's health even the one he says he loves.In some states it is illegal to not inform your sex partner you have hpv.honestly you should consider leaving him before there are any new surprises.
2006-10-20 18:53:50 · answer #8 · answered by kevin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good that ur going to get it checked out. i think it might be hpv or genital warts...good luck in the future.
2006-10-20 16:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slice them, dice them, or just use them like a french tickler
2006-10-21 13:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by queer_defeater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋