IAm 27years old, I feel it is the time to get married and live the family life. For the coming 2years, I should be married and at least have one kid.
But, I feel too much scared, I suppose it comes positive?? will all my dreams be shut down? will be able to have a baby if found positive??. What will be the reaction from my friends? family and other relatives?.Really these are the questions daily ringing in my head.
These questions acted as a break for me to go for a test. Should I mary before testing? how about the kid if found positive? how about its mom?.Just a bit cough make me feel,ooooooooh! the symptoms have already started!!!Lots and lots of questions burning my brain.
Please help me, where and how to start?, I HAVE NEVER SEXED WITHOUT A CONDOM
2006-10-20 03:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
STOP!!! Not getting tested DOES NOT mean you won't DIE FROM AIDS it just means you will die quicker because you are not taking care of yourself.
If you are adamant about safer sex, then...
You are having what i call F U C K E R S GUILT. It will become more intense while you wait for the results. It is a good time to evaluate your sexual habits and determine how you are going to change...if at all.
Take a deep breath, call Planned Parenthood, and prepare to give blood.
That reminds me, I'm due (I go yearly)
2006-10-20 03:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You shoul not to feel scary is the fist thing to do, next go to de planned parenthood this is in Monclair they don ask or tell your information to any body, if you said that you use a condom always you don't be worry because there is no reason to have SIDA, i done the test two months ago with my boyfriend, he was very scare also, he always use condon is what he said, I take his hand and came with him I did too, is so easy takes only 20 minutes to tell you that you are ok, so don't be scare what can hapen the bed part is that you find out you have to start to taken care of you because you are promiscuo or because you have hiv, so don't be a kid you want to start a live to be responsable, ok start for the begining and face the situation you'll see everything will be ok .sorry for my write good luck.
2006-10-20 10:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by psilva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get married and have a kid; you should get tested. It's better to know sooner than later, because the longer you wait the more difficult it is to treat. Also, you don't want to spread it to anyone else. Even though you used a condom the chances of it busting microscopically is possible. I'm so sorry this happened to you,in addition, you need to tell your close relative for moral support. Good luck!
2006-10-20 10:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Interupted 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, I understand is a frightening experience, but even if you get married and have a baby without knowing the anxiety is going to be worse!! I suggest that you go to the doctor and get tested immediately, it' s better knowing than living in doubt. Don't worry about what people might think about you, instead use that energy and concentrate in yourself for now..
2006-10-20 12:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorance is not bliss. Just be a man and take the test. If it comes out negative, great. If it comes out positive (which isn't likely, since you say you've never had unprotected sex), then you can ask your doctor all those other questions.
2006-10-20 10:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
get tested,if you are having sex then you are at risk just like the rest of us.you marry someone you love and why would you want to get married first before you get tested,if you have it .you don't want to give it to someone you love or not love.be a man and just do it.that's why kids are born with HIV because some one was to scared to get tested.
2006-10-23 13:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by cool mom32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be brave and meet the "enemy" eye to eye. That is the only way you can conquer the enemy. Have your test done. The probability is high that you don't have it, because you always wear protection. But how could you know if you don't have yourself tested?
2006-10-20 10:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then what are you so hysterical about? If you never had unprotected sex then calm down.
Jeesh.
2006-10-20 10:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, If you have it you do. If you don't you don't. Are you going to live any longer if you don't find out?
2006-10-20 10:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋