my wife has temper. she is cold like ice. we havent had sex for 6 months. I'm very active and need sex but ........help me plz
2006-10-16 08:31:00 · 11 answers · asked by kh0sh_mashrab 1 in Dining Out ➔ United Kingdom ➔ Birmingham
2 choices
1st a hooker
2ND your hand
pick one !!
2006-10-16 08:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Big R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason she is acting cold and short-tempered. The most important way for a man to show he cares is through sex....and to us ladies, we feel the most important way is through communication. Talk to her. Find out what is wrong. Apologize if need be. Fix it. She isn't going to give you sex if she's upset about something else. Sometimes we get sick of being the ones to always confront you when there is an issue because it makes us look like complainers. Let her know you have noticed she is acting cold and that you want to "fix" things. She'll be so impressed, she'll spill it all out, apologize, and then have sex! Good luck. If this doesn't work and there is a deeper issue at hand you may consider counseling.
2006-10-16 08:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a heads up: I’m pretty sure it’s never ok to defecate on your marriage so I’d say the hooker’s are out. Besides, doing that would only enrage your wife more *duh* Almost every woman I know bases her relationships on communication. I’d try talking to her and some serious masturbation in the mean time. If she’s not open to your conversation see if she’d go talk to someone either alone or with you. Or offer different things like a sex therapist or changing things in the bedroom. A close friend of mine went through the same thing he said it best with his comment about sex; “Sex is like oxygen, not very appreciated until you’re not getting any!” as he pretended to gasp for air. And while sex is important it shouldn’t be the only staple that holds your marriage together and if it is I’d reevaluate your relationship. Good luck.
2006-10-16 09:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by alliekat56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that is why she is cold like ice.Try coming on to her maybe take her to dinner rent a room w/ a jacuzzi and give her lots of forplay. If that don't work go the I want a D_I_V_O_R_C_E route. Still nothin' get a divorce ,toy or take a lover she can't be mad if she ain't giving it up you have the right to get it somewhere else. Just find someone clean not a whore.
2006-10-16 10:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try taking taking her out,one thing about relationshipis communication,she has probably had issues in the past that is affecting her now.Talk to her but if it persist.you should probaby see a councelor.
2006-10-16 09:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by godknows 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try cutting down on the amount of time being on here asking questions and talk to her. she must be p***ed off with you for something
2006-10-16 14:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what are you asking? For permission or someone to cheat with? Maybe you need to find out why she is so angry and denying you. Maybe she is afraid you are out looking? Are you?
2006-10-16 08:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by c2god2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a divorce if she refuses to go to counceling with you.
2006-10-16 09:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask this in the DINING OUT section?
2006-10-16 14:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rusty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you Love her go to her with this problem... If no answer.... Use your hand or leave her....
2006-10-16 09:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by Big B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋