Thing is, when we was apart we both had new partners mine was a fling, and so was his. His however was a 18 yr old girl. When he first finished wi her she said she was pregnant, he told her the truth that he was gettin back wi me! She is now saying she has gential warts, she has had em for 12 months! Do you think this is true or is it just her trying to split us up????
2006-10-03 03:46:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
sounds like she is trying to do one of the following:
1. make you jealous and make you disbelieve your partner and make you think that he has been unfaithful with more than just her.
2. she is getting even with him for breaking up with her.
3. cause fighting and arguing amongst the two of you to cause another break up to attempt to get him back.
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Don't worry about what she is doing, she is only 18 years old, its all a game, she doesn't care and its a sign of immaturity!
2006-10-03 03:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like she is trying to cause trouble and could very well be mentally ill, no sane person would do this. She is obviously very immature.
All the same I wouldn't just pass her off as a trouble making liar, she may very well be telling the truth. She is the classic boy who cried wolf story. Do yourself a favour and have a full check over at the STD clinic and make your boyfriend do the same. It is the only way you can be totally sure and the only way you can move forward with your relationship.
You should give your boyfriend a proper telling off for not using condoms with her in the first place and possibly infecting you with god only knows what.
Good luck.
2006-10-03 03:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would do is see gynocologist and be checked for any STD's. This will eliminate any question in your mind about her trying to split you two up. Second, if he has fathered a child with this girl, be prepared to never have a life of your own. Everything will revolve around this child and that includes the child's mother. Are you the type that wouldn't bring this up every time you two argued? Good luck
2006-10-03 03:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by SHOE HO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your ex should have both been tested for HIV/AIDS and STDs before you ever got back together again. Then you would have known. It would have been the responsible thing to do.
Now, you're both stuck. So off you go to the doctor's office or the clinic to find out after the fact.
2006-10-03 03:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
basically she is still a teen with an attitude problem. of course she is trying to split ye up. but if u get ur man 2go an get checked over and urself it will ease ur mind. i take it this girl is alot younger than either of ye. if things are great between ye ask urself why are you so unsure?? regards.
2006-10-03 04:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by helena w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whatever she's doing I would suggest getting yourself checked out anyway. I certainly wouldn't get back with an ex then straight away have BB sex.
2006-10-03 04:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would that split you up? They are treatable. You know he was with her so that is the biggest thing to overcome and it can be done. He just needs to have it checked out and so what if he does......it's not the end of the world is it? Good luck !
2006-10-03 03:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever the truth is, just make sure you keep up to date with your cervical smear tests.
The wart virus can cause cervical cell changes, possibly leading to cancer.
Even if you don't develop warts, you can still have the virus.
Google HPV. (human papilloma virus).
2006-10-03 05:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get tested to be sure. It's the safest thing to do both of you. I think she may be lying but go and get it checked and treated if neccessary!
2006-10-03 03:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋