im 48 yrs old and respect my health- ive vever had any stds or anything like it. every time i get close to a woman and things get frisky-i ask that we both go and get tested and let the fun begin!. they will then hate you for not just trustin them. go into the std section here and youll know why im so friggin careful. im a one woman kind of guy and am not going to expose myself to stuff that i can avoid. ill find that one special lady and have all the fun in the world-i am one of the horniest guys out there with the libido of a 20 yr old - and its hard[no pun intended] not caving in to temptation. is there anyone else out there that thinks like me or am i the lone friggin ranger or somethin!. are there women who think like i do on this subject - or am i just going to have to cave in and enjoy a great piece of *** like everyone else and risk it all ps-scary as hell!.
2006-09-30 05:54:14 · 7 answers · asked by inquisitive 4 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
I would think that in todays world where sex = DEATH!!! someone would agree with you, but it's the emotional jarring that they are offended by.
They know you and want you and it is emotionally shocking to them that you can think logically in the face of passion.
You will find someone. Be strong!
2006-09-30 05:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by splitshell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I dont think YOU would be able "to cave in and enjoy a great piece of ***" Good for you, I'm just betting that shortly before you started, it wouldnt be a hard decision anymore.
In the beginning of a relationship, like that first or second date, when you're talking about what you like in women etc, whenever that kind of talk starts, your insistence on testing should be made known then, so it wont seem like a judgement call you made about them. You're healthy, you like yourself and your woman to be healthy, and you want to stay healthy. Life isnt fun without being healthy. I see nothing wrong with being upfront, just a little earlier in the relationship before "you get close to a woman". I'd never date anyone who drinks AT ALL. Best to say before that first date, huh? Same with your likes and dislikes.To put that mildly. Good for you. I'd appreciate you and your honesty from the beginning.
2006-09-30 13:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by baghmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is completely sensible of you. If you do find that someone that you want to go to the next level with, you probably really like, or maybe even love this person and there is nothing wrong with wanting to protect yourself as well as protect your partner from anything that you may have unknowing picked up from a previous partner. Suggesting you both get tested before hand, to me, seem like a really healthy and loving thing to do. Its like saying, I love you so much that I want to make sure that we both know the potential risks before hand.
I was raped 5 years ago and caught herpes and hpv, I am always up front about this. If I truly love the man I am considering being with, then I want him to know that there is a risk and then let him decide if the risk is worth it, because if I love the man, I don't want to intentionally infect him or hurt him in any way.
Hang in there, you WILL find someone out there with the same morals and attitudes as you!
2006-10-01 00:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dorothy K. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think there is anything wrong with it. protecting yourself and others is a wonderful idea. if everyone thought that way there wouldn't be as many std's spread. and you are right it's scary as hell, and more people should take it into consideration. You might check on how you are approaching the subject with women. I'm sure most of them are taking offense if you aren't handling the subject with care....they may be taking it as you are referring to them as someone who sleeps around.
2006-09-30 13:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by smilieb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are pretty sensible. It is very scary really, it only takes 1 bad one and you could die. And it an happen to anyone. It is a good idea for checks to give you piece of mind, if in a long term relationship, in the meantime, do all you can to protect yourself
2006-09-30 13:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by leigha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because now a days people have become so generous and started "sharing" and "passing out" their std's. Sometimes even aids. And the worst of it is that, they don't give a flying *****! You gotta be very cautious.
Better Safe Than Sorry.
2006-09-30 18:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funi but good.
if u keep ur liver detoxed n take olive leaf extract to protect ur immune system u should b safe.
coconut is also gr8
avoid chemical shampoos etc etc and pets n parasites
why wood u give in now? after waitin all this time 4 miss rite
2006-09-30 13:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by luvblis 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋