I feel really bad & depressed right now & can't sleep. She put me on her kiss-my-*** list. She thinks she's saved with the holy spirit. But how can she be if she keeps spreading false rumors about me?
2006-09-28 23:37:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should be plenty worried. This is not normal. Have a talk with your sister, and see if you can work things out. If you cannot, get someone in the family to mediate.
2006-09-29 00:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't make other people do.
What you can do is make sure that you make responsible decisions and treat yourself with respect. Respond to your sister if you speak with her. Do not react. Respond. Give her one answer when she puts you down. " I love you Name, I miss you and I expect some respect, ok?" And walk away. The end. Say it every time. Eventually she should be able to hear what you are saying even if her jaw does drop the first time you do this.
About the rumors. People who know you know you. Hold your head high and show folks that you are someone worthy of respect. Respond to people who repeat your sister that you know what she said and that you love her anyway and have asked her to start treating you with respect. This will get back to her.....and then you've got her.
2006-09-29 00:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sunbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her that the Holy Spirit fills your heart with love and compassion for all people....she must be possessed with a spirit of a different kind!
2006-09-28 23:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly right you are.she's another person imitating a follower of God.She's no different than a terrorist. killing your spirit and claiming her self to be a follower of Gods laws.Get over these people who cast false images and no matter who they are.you seem to know that a truly "saved" as you say person would not slander your name.God was angered at those who slandered Mary , so pay that devil no mind and no weapon formed against you shall prosper.
2006-09-28 23:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are people who would be unable to administration on telling lies.according to probability because of the fact she became into used to it already. whilst she became into nonetheless small according to probability she have been given used to telling lies and your mothers and fathers in all likelihood would not recommendations in any respect.that atiitude would desire to be the end results of her previous.i think of that she isn't yet chuffed together with her life yet whilst she meets the guy for her I assure you that she will exchange.
2016-10-15 08:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and express urself... if she has the holy spirit she does not have a kiss my *** list.... i think ur misunderstanding her
2006-09-29 01:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by JBOY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be good kiss the as, is your sister. But what is stupid in I can't read You.
2006-09-28 23:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your worry will not solve the problem.Understand her as she is.At last truth will win
2006-09-28 23:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by babu m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this a false and not a true question.
Sorry if i am wrong.
2006-09-28 23:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a fool because there should be the maximum affinity between the 2 of u....she is crazy.....
2006-09-28 23:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋