talk with me with luv coz it seems 2 him that my mom missing his x husband.my step papa beats me n i hv still marks on My whole body n face.My mother just want from myslef 2 serve my father.My step simblings dont like me even hate 2 introdue me from as a sis.once my step sis throw Bleachan On My face.that day i decided that i should leave this home 4 ever n ever i dont want 2 hurt myself again n again.there was a guy who was intrested in Myself n i dont like him even But he was (i think Then) sinere with me .he as well send his parents 2 my home but my father refused n insulted them alot n said he ll never gonna marry me.he used 2 call me again n again after it.i dont wana talk 2 him but i found a way 2 get of this home.i left my home 4 ever. got marries 2 him But after marriage i came 2 know i m again in a hell,my husband has girl friends,he is a Drinker,watch all day Nude movies.i had no way out he dont care abt me n beat me alot.i had a Chat friend n i luv him alot..plz help
2006-09-28 23:27:41 · 14 answers · asked by Aizah a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi...after reading Ur question ...i read Ur profile n came 2 know u r Only 18...????listen dear.....i can feel Ur frustration from ur question But the only way out is Ur Luv....as u r deeply in luv with him so a gr8 life is waiting 4 u.....U left ur parents....they deserve it....Now leave Ur husband....he also deserve it.....i think u r so innocent so cant identify people...go 2 court n ask 4 devorce...then try 2 contact ur chat friend.....dont look back...a gr8 life is waiting 4 u.....start studying again
2006-09-29 06:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for the troubles you are faceing. It seems to escape from the pond you have fallen into a sea. It is better to quit this drunkered fool. Better be on a hunt for a better partner who does not like in the town or city you live in. Register a complaint of unknown address and high light the true facts and post it to the news channels and get away from there. Hope from the question you have asked and the language used by you, you seem to be intelligent and can survive without your parents and this so called husband. Take this step and leave the rest for him to answer the people
2006-09-28 23:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT OF THIS situation . Get a job. there may be support groups where you live. Find out. Never trust individuals. Be come independent. Afterwards, you may try to marry someone after you have known and understood him well enough . Do NOT go to your chat friend. What do you know about him? If he is willing to support you and help you to stand on your own feet, then it is fine. Do not rush into marriage or other intimate relationship .
Take care. May God be with you.
2006-09-29 02:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is help out there for you. But you have to be willing to get out and get it. Usually when your grow up in an abussive home, we have a tendency to marry into the same. There are shelters for battered women out there, and they will help you to get on your feet with your children. Start by calling your home town Welfare office, they will be able to get you to the right place. You going to have to take a stand for yourself, and get out of this situation before one of these people really hurt you. You grew up being abused, and now your own children are in the same pattern as you. You need to stop this abuse now, and never, never go back. Good Luck to you!
2006-09-28 23:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Paulda37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope with all my heart and soul that you a working lady. If you are not, then become one. Get a job, leave that stupid thing. After that, try to meet your chat friend. Live life with your terms. Do not torture yourself more than this. You have suffered enough and deserve much better than that for sure. Take care.
2006-09-29 00:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry that ur life is just full of sorrows.I think u shud leave(divorce) ur husband and get close 2 ur chat frnd as u love him.Spend more time with ur chat frnd and then u get married with him.That's what I think u shud do.Wish u a Happy Life.
2006-09-28 23:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Shaily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God. You need to get out of that relationship and fast. If you have to move into a womens hostel and sort your life out from there.
Dont jump into something cause you think it will save you. But get out of your current situation and look after yourself
Good luck x
2006-09-28 23:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation as narrated by you being horrible is better to find some ways and means to avoid the present one. No hurry steps, but everything calculated and then only.
2006-09-29 00:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear little one, where do you live that such things could go on? My heart is broken for you, if this story is true. This is not the kind of life God has planned for you. You need to seek some help but most of all to call out to God in heaven through his son JESUS to help you...Put your trust in Him and he will guide you in all matters, pray for your husband too , that his heart be changed, I will be praying for you.....God bless you
2006-09-28 23:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Godb4me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's terrible. get out of this relationship as soon as possible n inform ur mom without letting anybody else know. start life all over again, without anyone knowing about ur whereabouts. be brave n good luck!
2006-09-28 23:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋