I sometimes sleep over my fiances house but I sleep on the couch in the living room and he sleeps in his own room in his bed. We are engaged to be married but still. We arent doing anything either we are waiting till marriage.
2006-09-28 23:15:07 · 12 answers · asked by meg7901 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
the key word is sleep. nothing forbids you from sleeping with anybody. having sex is not sleeping.
2006-09-28 23:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest I think that sleeping over with your fiancé is’nt bad as long as no “love-making” would happen but if love-making happens then God won’t be pleased by it. The bible says that it would be a great sin to have sex with someone you are’nt married with because before you make sex---you should have God’s blessing first. Although I believe that there is nothing wrong with sleeping over at your fiancés house, it would still be much better ang more appropriate if you sleep on you own house. Hope this advice helps!!
2006-09-29 06:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Thug Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the Bible says anything about sleeping in someone else's house, but it does say to be hospitable, so your finacee is being a good Christian by allowing you to stay there. Congratulations on waiting until marriage for the physical stuff - that is quite admirable.
2006-09-29 06:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Smiley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are doing anything wrong by being in the same house and I don't think the bible says anything about that situation. It talks about not getting it on before marriage, but you said you aren't doing that so its all groovy from what I can see.
Who is trying to make you feel guilty for this?
2006-09-29 06:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tish-a-licious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your fiances house is in the city you both are to be stoned to death. If the house is in the country The man must immediately go to your fathers house and pay him 50 pieces of silver for your hand.
2006-09-29 06:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem is that it puts a real strain on keeping chaste.
And as you certainly know by now, it opens the door for many accusations.
But, your choice.
2006-09-29 06:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Such an arrangement is not sinful in and of itself. But it could be an avoidable source of temptation. We should not knowingly and unnecessarily place ourselves in situations which we know will tempt us to sin.
2006-09-29 09:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by PaulCyp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you use a 200-year old hand-drawn map to find your way around the streets of New York today? (hahaha).
2006-09-29 06:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by Sabi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you. The Bible says to keep yourself chaste.
2006-09-29 06:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing the right thing...
Rare, Unique, Rightous...
Beautiful...
2006-09-29 06:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋