I asked a similar Question yesterday but she has since sent a txt I still havent replied to her.
Right, my g/f has been playing games, by games she somehow has me chasing round after her and only sees me when she wants to. This week she couldnt see me on tues because parents were flying back from south africa, wednesday she wanted to see her parents, thursday she said that she is getting ready to go out on friday after work and has to get her change of clothes ready ( sort of leaving party as she is leaving work on sat ) anyway so cant see me on fri leaving party, Sat cant see me promised a friend in london would go out with her. Cant see me on sunday as her mums birthday.
After hearing all this I said that she should call me when she wanted to see me.I havnt heard since.
Her txt yesterday said "Had a lovely day looking at flats and car shopping."
Do you think I should cave in and text her or be strong.
I havnt spoken or txt her since tuesday eveing.
2006-09-28 23:03:30 · 33 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe I should just learn to live with it. The person that I first met I love to pieces and it goes against everyting that I believe to just dump someone. And I have asked her alot of these questions she says that she still fancys me but says that she needs her own space and that she is very tired after work. I dont know if she is telling me the truth because I would make time to be with her even if I was tired.
2006-09-28 23:26:26 · update #1
Be strong!!Dont txt her.It sounds like she is making up silly excuses not to see you!!I would seriously consider whether this relationship is worth carrying on!!If not id get out of it before she decides to x
2006-09-28 23:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight and firm with her, (personally, I think she's playing around) ask her what the story is, if she wants to be with you, she has to make the effort to make time for you. everyone is tired after work so that excuse just doesn't wash.
have you been with her long? If she doesn't make any changes to her lifestyle, I'd take it as a very obvious message that she's not interested anymore and is too chicken to actually say it aloud.
I have a friend who's bloke pulled exactley the same **** on her, and it went on 18months! she ended up with depressionand OCD. sort it out now. no one should have you wrapped rounf their little finger. be your own person.
2006-09-29 01:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by give up art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could text her back if you want, but the late reply inconnection to the car shopping wont fit in, so i suggest you be strong, besides the message didnt say anything about wanting to see you, I think she is stringing you along. The decision is left to you,
2006-09-28 23:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by babejules2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you text back to that anyway/ Its hardly as though she was asking after you or how you are or even asking to see you? She's selfish and quite clearly doesn't like you as much as you like her. Stop wasting your time and effort worrying about this girl. Either bite the bullet and confront her once and for all, or end it.
2006-09-28 23:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 12:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe play her at her own game. Text her back something neutral. Don't ask her when you can see her. When she's 'ready' to see you tell her you can't, you've made other plans. See what happens. She'll probably end up chasing you.
2006-09-29 00:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by yes darling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i guess u shud hv an open frank conversation, sometimes we tend to take relationship for granted, tell her this is imp for u, but u cant take this behaviour, dont reply bak right now, be strong, let her call u, if she doesnt, let her go to hell, if she calls tell her u both need to talk, and then also if she responds bak in the same manner, break off, all the best
2006-09-28 23:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't text her back. She is totally too high maintenance. Unless you like that type of gal. Whose going to go out and spend all your hard earned money, and not think twice about it. Whose always going to be asking honey will you get me this, honey will you get me that.
Besides whats wrong with her actually calling is she trying to hide something from you?
2006-09-28 23:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her what's going on. So yes, text her.
To be honest, if she's already your girlfriend, she should not be playing so hard to get. It might mean she doesn't like you that much anymore. If she was still very interested in you, she would not hesitate to hang out with you.
2006-09-28 23:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are to soft + far too trusting....she could be going out + you dont know who with or where....if were you i would think she was cheating or something....she seems to get her way alot + an invite to her party wouldnt go a miss....theres something not right about your relationship....i think maybe you should finish it + tell her that she is walking all over you + you dont like it...
good luck
x.niks.x
2006-09-28 23:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋