Ok I think people draw many of their own conclusions, so I'll try to delineate this in numerical order in order to further clarify my question:
1) I met a guy at the beginning of this semester--we're both in college--and I liked him instantly. We both just got out of long-term relationships yet we still love the ex.
2) The second time I saw him he basically got all passionate/horny and wanted to go down on me. In the end I told him I could not go through with it because I did not love him.
3) I am a virgin. He is not. I am 20 and he is a couple years older than me.
4) We talk about a lot of emotions and feelings and all that. I enjoy conversing with him.
5) He got my # off our mutual acquaintance and called me 2 days later after he went down on me. He told me he wanted to see me again, or talk to me and not have anythign as we were both still emotionalyl conflicted. He told me he did not want anything physical, just to talk.
6) Saw him on campus. He hugged me when we parted, and said
2006-09-28 23:01:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he'd call me.
I enjoy talking to him and his company, and would not mind if we were just friends. I don't want to be in a relationship either, but I do like him and am attracted to him both physically and mentally.
Do you think we are going to be friends or not? Or what is going to happen?
2006-09-28 23:02:42 · update #1
We're both dating other people by the way....but I actualyl like this guy both mentally and physically.
2006-09-28 23:03:43 · update #2
By dating, I mean casually going out with guys who ask me out, and he casually goes out with girls.
2006-09-28 23:04:03 · update #3
Poster 2: I SAID IM A VIRGIN, duh. I didn't give him anything. Read the entire post. And he actually called me. I haven't called him yet.
2006-09-28 23:06:33 · update #4
he is just like a normal any other guy.. nothing special...tried to came on to too soon.. specailly when you said he still love his ex..i guess he does have hots for you.. but to what extent and wot way and how serious it is, well thats not clear...
i guess everything is on your hand, if you want to be just frinends you will be and if you want more i am sure he will be more than happy ...
There is every possibility that it will be more than friendship.. but you need to be a bit careful and very sure about his intensions.. all the best... if you think you can like him more than a friend and he also feels the same then i guess there is no harm.. just take care and keep a check on your heart , what it really wants ....
2006-09-28 23:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he wants a booty call. And of course you got a hug in public, he wants to keep you happy, better chance of more action.
Booty call relationships rarely work out in the long run. They are fun, but then someone gets attatched, and the other one moves on to someone funner and freakier.
I would either make him DATE you, or just have fun, but don't try and read into it anymore than it already is.
2006-09-29 06:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably start off as friends, which is good cause its what you both seem to need, but further down the line it'll either turn into something more serious and personal or you'll stay friends and start seeing other people
2006-09-29 06:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, if somebody could see the future, but who.
You're going to find out the answer by yourself only.
2006-09-29 06:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything could happen...Ä°f you let him,I think he will go for more than a friendship.Ä°t could be good for you too.You should live your life the way you like...Go for it,who knows maybe he's the one! :-)
2006-09-29 06:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will end up sleeping together. and will no longer be friends, instead he will become your boyfriend.
2006-09-29 06:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ronica A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gonna **** with him and he is gonna never called you back
2006-09-29 06:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋