i like someone & he has affair with too many girls but now he told me that befor mariage i left all i trust /n

Answer 1

If he is honest with you and is telling you that he ll leave everything after marriage, then go ahead. this guy seems to be honest, which is one of the most imp things in marriage.

Answer 2

You two are OBVIOUSLY not ready for marraige if u have to ask this question! Y not just date for a while longer and then if you see that he truly has changed you will know in your heart that you are to marry him. Marraige is a very serious comittment and not something you want to enter into with any lingering doubts, Especially about wether or not your partner can be faithful! good luck, and please dont get married until you are 100% sure it is the right step for you to take.

Answer 3

He'll have an affair with you too, if you give him half a chance. If that's what you want, fine. However, if it's Happily Ever After you want, forget about him and find someone else.

Answer 4

Does He Love You are is it just Lust
Love and lust are inextricably intertwined. Lust is ground zero for hormones — it's nature's way of bringing the opposite sexes together to mate. In fact, without lust, it's doubtful that love between a man and a woman would have a chance to prosper at all. The driving force of the sexual imperative bridges the gap between the almost incompatible brain styles of the two sexes. So lust can be seen as one end of a broad continuum, which may or may not culminate in romantic love. And love is the most ennobling of human emotions — transcendental, exalted and capable of engendering emotional states that can make the male of the species "want to be a better man." Men fight wars over lust, but they make homes and families for love.
In Love with Lust
For men, lust is a heady experience; the brain goes on hold and red-hot surges of testosterone run the show. Lust — like love — is truly blind. This is why, especially at the beginning of a relationship, it can be hard to tell whether you're in lust or love; whether she may be the one, or merely a passing fancy who'll have your blood boiling for only a short while.

This is because men are perfectly capable of engaging in sex before they forge emotional bonds with a woman — and those raging hormones can easily disguise themselves as feelings of love.
The real danger is that both lust and love can rob a man of his natural strength and defenses — and then it's all too easy to hand his male power over to a woman for sex-ploitation.
Lust is especially dangerous because it causes a man to think with his crotch and throw all reason and logic to the wind. When a man's in lust he doesn't care if he and his partner have anything in common. He's not interested in where she comes from or where she's going. His brain is only focused on using his key to unlock the door to the secret cave. If his partner's only in lust, she'll use this against him; but if they're both falling in love, this sexuality is a bond.
Is It Lust, or What?
So how can you tell the difference between lust and love? Here are a few tips to help you sort things out. It's lust if:
Does not care about anything you say - He make excuses not to spend time with u, except for sex. And if u ask for a favor, he tells u he is too busy. But if you have to be with him and not having sex, does he gets on your nerves and thinking about other women.
He only wants to be with you to have sex - It wouldn't make a difference to you if you never had a conversation with him. Furthermore, he dose not bother to return ur calls promptly and you can easily go for days without talking to him — until he wants to have sex again.
He leaves after sex - After having sex with you, he looks for the easiest way to leave. No cuddling, no breakfast the next morning, just "I gotta go."
It's Love, Baby
It's love if:
You have great chemistry – HE get lost in your conversations, and the hours pass like minutes. You're more than willing to listen to him and when he talks, the chemistry between you is remarkable.
HE finds You beautiful - Even if he catches you with no makeup on and hair pulled back, he still finds you.
He wants to spend time U - All he want to do is to be with u, whether you're having sex or not. Even if you tell that sex will have to wait, he dosent care.
You see a future together - You experience the strange feeling that your life would be totally empty without each other.

HE include you in all your plans - Whether you're going out with your male friends or taking your dog for a walk, he wants you there. And if you are not there, he misses you.

HE always take your side - If someone says anything even slightly disparaging about you, he immediately rises to your defense. Furthermore, in social gatherings, he always agrees with you even if you disagree behind closed doors.
He makes you want to be a better woman – He challenges and motivates you, makes you happy, and you'd do anything to make him happy.
Lust is short-term fun; love is the long haul. Even though the two sometimes masquerade as each other, you should be able to tell the difference. The real trick is in deciding what you want, and that's up to you. Be careful in taking your decision and do it after giving a lot of thought, Dont get rushed into it.

Answer 5

humans do wrong but it doesn't mean he can't improve himself .
maybe ur frnd has also changed.u can give him a chance.
but be careful .may be he is lying.there is no harm in giving chance as u love him very much.
if he has changed but u don't allow him then u will be sorry for whole life.
so its better look for him again .there is no harm in second chance.

Answer 6

Do you like only him? Or is there anyone apart from himself? Maybe you may find someone attractive on a roadside?

Answer 7

well is telling you the truth but is up to you in my knowlege is very hard to change that, he will probably make some mistakes but you have to be clear with him if you dont trust the person forget it.

Answer 8

You know he will be unfaithful. You just do not want to end the realtionship. I am sorry for you

Answer 9

think twice before joining hand. check him and see the result ok

Answer 10

he is fooling you. May be he has told same things to other girls also.