For example when you quarrel and you dun want to touch a woman physically cos you know one push from you will send her flying and she knows that and that makes her want to push you more, knowing if you touch her physically, you're label as not a guy. Guys what will you do? What's your opinion ladies?
2006-09-28 21:27:38 · 13 answers · asked by Rollercoaster 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I have had this relationship and it is not a healthy one. I am 6’ 230 pounds, she was about 5’3” and 100 pounds soaking wet. She would try and choke me but was not even strong enough to hurt my neck when she squeezed with all her might.
The best advice I can give …………. Leave and never look back. You can not fix her and she is not healthy enough mentally to love you. She is seeking someone who is willing to fight back and if you are not willing to actually hurt her, she will not respect you.
She needs help you are not qualified or equipped to give her. Someone in her past has taught her that love is violence and conflict. You will not change this view, the only person who can is her and she will only do it with the aid of a therapist or through hard life lessons.
If you are in this situation I wish you the best no matter what you choose to do.
2006-09-28 21:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by thewolfskoll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Antagonizing an argument to the point that she is daring you to strike back is simply childish.
If this woman is hitting you, abuse is abuse. More than likely she is only trying to get your attention, and feels that you hitting her is some kind of attention.
The woman apparently has Issues, and if you are in an intimate relationship, it will only get out of hand, if allowed to go further.
If she is not acting like a homicidal maniac at a given point...try holding her and telling her that you Love her, maybe that's all she wants. If you are not intimate...Get out as fast as you can!
Very good of you to show restraint though, Good for you.
2006-09-28 21:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically, men and women in intimate relationships visit physically violent abuse upon each other at roughly equal rates. That has been shown by many studies over the years, as Milktoast kindly notes. But IPV (Intimate Partner Violence) is only one combination of abuse. Remember to factor in elder abuse, sibling abuse, coworker abuse, dating couple abuse, parent/child abuse, and various other dysfunctional relationship issues. What the studies show, in the most basic terms, is that men and women who act out with violence or other kinds of abuse, do so in roughly equal numbers. Let us all hope that gender equality does not end there. As always, remember that statistics do not help you if you are the one taking the punch.
2016-03-18 02:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman abuses you physically, don't hit back, put that witch in jail were she belongs.... Domestic abuse works both ways, it's not ok for men to hit women and vice versa
2006-09-28 21:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE!!!! Pick up any thing you can grab and leave. It won't get better man. If she lays hands on you then you just need to leave, even if it is your home... walk away before YOU go to jail. Every thing you share in that house can be replaced. Not your dignity or your self respect. Let it go and RUN! Don't let her ruin your future or your confidence. If you stay... It's called CO-DEPENDENCE and you need psychological help. Before it goes there, (like the Amnityville Horror House) GET OUT!!!
2006-09-28 21:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by meowzer mix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get OUT of the situation by walking away (If the abuser allows me to do so), otherwise defending myself in order to get away AND then lay a charge of assault.
I will treat her EXACTLY as I would treat a man who abuses me.
2006-09-28 22:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you should get out of this relationship now! the fact that you even have to ask this question sounds like the relationship is way past a healthy stage. if you both insist on staying together get professional couple help. imagine if it continued and kids were involved?
2006-09-28 21:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would get out of the relationship. Good luck Sport!
2006-09-29 05:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never push back, be the bigger person, walk away.
Report her, at this stage you are the victim.
2006-09-28 21:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i let them hit me until they calm down, they never hurt me real bad
2006-09-29 01:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋