I was really close to a guy online we have been friends for 2 years, we made plans to be together and had regular internet sex witch i know sounds sick but we were very close. I found out a few mths ago that he is married with a young child i didn't know about, this has really pissed me of because if i had known this i would never have gotten involved and wouldn't now have feelings for this man. So ive taken acton and put him on herehttp://dontdatehimgirl.com/search/cheater.asp?ddh_id=28372 he things im being unfair and wants it removed what do you all think? click the link if you want to see his pic and the profile!!
2006-09-28 21:20:43 · 45 answers · asked by happyslappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All he had to say was Im sorry i did you wrong please take it off and we will talk about it and i would of been reasonably why can't men say sorry??
2006-09-28 21:26:05 · update #1
YOU GO GIRL!!
2006-09-28 21:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My "hunch" is that due to the length of your so-called "internet relationship" that neither of you were very serious. Of course my opinion only. You can't "KNOW" anyone on the internet and that is a FACT. To expose someone like him is fine, but the only thing you'll accomplish is to make him angry. Maybe you'll enjoy that. Maybe he couldn't care less what you do? How long do you think the link showing his profile will make YOU feel better? And truthfully, I don't really think your link is going to help any prospective girls he will lie to in the future. It's only satisfying you, and evidently you need some kind of closure. Like I said, it really doesn't serve a purpose because this guy has millions of women to chose from, and most likely he'll do it again. The best way for you to get closure is to STOP contacting him and not letting him make you BITTER inside. I always find that interesting how people allow someone that is gone from their lives...to still cause them grief, even to the point of stripping them of the trust they will need for a real relationship in their future. Don't allow him to STILL hurt you by making you NEED revenge. I think you need to examine your own motives for allowing a cybersex internet relationship to go on that long. You're right...it does sound selfish, cheap, and full of disrespect on BOTH your parts. Don't fall back into his web.
2006-09-28 21:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by skoosh_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Nagging him will not help as he has more important
priorities than you. Give yourself a chance, the last thing in the
world this guy wants is contact with you. The moment you stop
attending his sick needs, which only make you think that all men
are the same, you will be free again. Go out with true friends
and meet real people, and stop internet affairs, and you will be
free once again. Give it a try, you have absolutely nothing to
lose. Good luck, this guy does not deserve your attention.
2006-09-28 21:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks your being unfair, lol. Hes the one that didn't tell you everything from the start. There are some guys out there that are just complete a**holes. i know thats bad for me to say cuz im a guy but its true. If i were you i would leave it up, he was just asking for it and you desirve better. Does he know anything about you like address, state you live in, phone #, etc. cuz if he does he might become a stalker. I don't know for sure but ive seen it happen to one of my friends, and hes still stalking her. So i wish you the best of luck with this one.
2006-09-28 21:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by cobra69_68467 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him for good - he is using you & getting a cheap thrill. You do not say if you have ever met in person. If it is just an internet thing then you should really think hard about what you have been doing. How can you possibly fall for someone you have never met? Put it down to experience & move on - this time for REAL
2006-09-28 23:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by flicflac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being unfair. Really to be fair you should tell his poor wife what is going on - she is even more of a victim than you are.
I would not remove his profile until you have let his wife know it is on there and if she wants it removed then take it down.
2006-09-28 21:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you - doesnt matter if it was only over the internet, how do you know hes not done this with other people behind his wifes back as well ? am glad you exposed him so it stops him getting away with it again - and yes he will say sorry and maybe is sorry -only because he got caught out.
2006-09-28 21:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by kinnoishere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong to put him on there at all if he's doing what you say he is. However, my only reservation would be to look over what you wrote about him on that website and make sure that everything you are saying is 100% true, and not just assumptions. If you are exaggerating about any of that, then that makes you no better than him.
2006-09-28 21:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go girl and im telling you hold your head up high he deserved it he was being unfair to you and his wife. you knew nothing so your no way in the wrong and i no he's hurt you but plenty more fish in the sea k. go get on with your life he's good for nothin and your a really nice person i clicked on the link.
Forget him you deserve better! Enjoy yourself and Enjoy watching him squirm
2006-09-28 21:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Blonde_o2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are wrong! you lead him on did you not? So why is it all his fault? are you not partly to blame? Why smear the guy all over the world wide web when you are as much to blame as he is? I think you are stupid for doing what you are doing to him. Just sign him off and let it go and be a little more cautious next time. Sometimes the Internet can be a scary place.
2006-09-28 21:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by orlin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think he will say "I'm sorry ". He will tell you that you got everything wrong and it was all the Army (or anybody else ) I think he will blame you, for being unfair, just because he was caught with his hands in the jar......
Sweetie, tell him he is a big loser...he is shallow and not able to give anything ......he used you for his fun and in that case, using is misusing......he is a big loser, because he lost somebody special : YOU
* big hugs* try to forget him ....
2006-09-28 21:40:36 · answer #11 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋