2006-09-28 21:15:08 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Not unless I was a supreme asshole narcissist.
If I didn't approve of a wedding I wouldn't go.
2006-09-28 21:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
A tiny little black veil over the right hat would be acceptable. Make sure you are in uniform and matching the whole ensemble, However, if the only purpose to wear a fabulous color such as Black to a wedding, is to state a point of disapproval, why not just speak up when the Minister/Priest announces "Does anyone here have objections". This way you can be assured that others will take notice of yourself and what you are wearing at the same time.
Don't forget to accessorize! You may have to defend yourself.
2006-09-28 21:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Too rude. Besides, you'd be the total focus of the whole event as everyone would be wondering who the weirdo was.
If you were invited by the bride or groom, and they reeeeeeealy wanted you to go, then you should put on a brave face and turn up, regardless whether you approve of the marriage or not. If you're the partner of someone who was invited, then I say you shouldn't go. A wedding is a special occasion, and you shouldn't spoil someone else's special day - how would you like someone to do that to you?
2006-09-29 07:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Curly Locks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I just wouldn't attend the wedding as by doing so you are giving your approval with or without the black veil.
2006-09-29 01:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Even though you are entitled to your opinion, you DO NOT have the right to insult, embarrass or ruin the couple's special day. If you disapprove so much, consider this:
Is losing a friend or hurting someone worth making your opinion known to everyone and embarrassing the couple; are you really that selfish and arrogant?
If you disapprove so much, then don't go, but remember - Not going is also an insult and causes hurt, which can lead to the loss of that relationship you share with whichever one you know and are close to.
Think how you would feel if someone did that to you or someone you love.
2006-09-28 21:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow Dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is to be intended as a statement of disapproval then no.
If it's a fashion/stylish type thing, go ahead within reason.
Pretend it's your best friend's wedding and dress accordingly.
A wedding day is a big day for both families, don't let your action be a bad memory for everyone.
On a lighter (and weirder) note my daughter's best friend is getting married next year and she's wearing black.
2006-09-28 21:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the bride, bridesmaid or guest?? Veil would make me think bride but you never know..
I guess if the bride is the one asking you to - but other than that - no. If you are the bride and don't want to then of course - no way - it is your wedding - you make it about both of you -- no one else. Black is not really the color to wear at a wedding at all - let alone a black veil.
2006-09-28 21:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. You should just stay at home if you do not approve of the wedding.
2006-09-29 15:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by suz' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had real genuine reason for not approving e.g. it was a visa wedding, I wouldn't go, otherwise I'ld either have to decide to go and support them or to stay at home
2006-09-28 21:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's wired, what if your soul mate was meant to meet u there & didnt get 2 talk 2 u b'coz u looked liked an ex ready 2 have some one's head off? Think about it!
2006-09-28 21:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Luvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋