i hate that i am "bigger" in that area and he probably isnt aware of that but still he should of kept his mouth shut right?
2006-09-28 21:12:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I'd be really offended too. He shouldn't have commented on that. But he may not have meant anything by it. Guys are pretty clueless in general.
2006-10-02 11:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look girl I know just how you feel. I've had mine since the 8th grade and it never gets easier especially around horny teenage boys. I'm 5'6 with a D rack, they stick out...people always comment on them, or look at them. I even had a few people ask me if they could touch them. I know it sounds bad, but you get use to it after a few comments. There are some women in the world that pay for what we have. So take it as a very bad compliment. And if you don't like you always have the opt to get a reduction. Plus he's a MALE! He's gonna think about boobies, whether it be yours or anyone elses. And you also have to learn to laugh this off, because if you can't laugh your gonna be offended all the time, learn to laugh at yourself.
2006-09-28 21:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lorena S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did not overreact! Anyone who would make that comment is insensitive and offensive. I am sure that you would not comment on the size of his body parts.
The question is how to respond in an intelligent manner without stooping to his level by telling him to "his mouth shut". For example, you might tell him "Your comment makes me uncomfortable hugging you, and I am offended by your reference to my size". (leave out the word breast).
You are right on, and don't need to accept comments like that. You deserve to be respected!
2006-09-28 21:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by lynnemaria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you.You did not overact.He was impolite to say that.Big breast should be thanked to God because there are many women who want big breast but they have not.They want their breast to be operated with an expensive cost and not natural.Do not be wrrry about it .There are many men who much like to find a woman who has a big breast..In islamic teaching someone will has sin if the creation of Allah the only one God is critized by humans..Someone who insulted others will has sin and get a punishment from Allah.You are angry with him is a right attitude.
2006-09-28 21:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are right he should have kept his mouth shut. and you should tell him so. Let him know that you don't appreciate comments like that. You aren't that type of "friend" and he should know better. If you don't draw the line somewhere then who knows what his next "comment" would be.
2006-09-28 21:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Teri D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if a girl friend told me i had a big penis after hugging me, i might be flattered, but maybe a little creeped out. shows they were thinking about how they could feel my (|ick instead of hugging me, also if they were just a friend they should keep their mouth shut, my penis is my boyfriend's busines not theirs
2006-09-29 01:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep he should of kept his mouth shut. This guy's a friend?? He really needs to grow up.,....
2006-09-28 21:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some reason males love big breast.
2006-09-28 21:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you did not over-react. He should've kept his comments to himself. In the future, it might be better to restrict your acts of affection to a polite handshake.
2006-09-29 03:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by LineDancer 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you...That was inappropriate in every way, even from a close friend. You did not overreact, only an ***-hole would make such a comment.
2006-09-28 21:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by reuprict2003 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋