in my fly my mom and one of my sisters always see the worse i refuse to be like that why is it that pp; would rather see the worse than to have faith for thebest?
2006-09-28 20:50:45 · 11 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
that's just the way the world is
2006-09-28 20:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't laugh, but, I think it has something to do with Santa Claus and pixy dust. I've watched thousands of children of all ages over several decades of my life as an educator, registered nurse and mother. Most children come into this world with a bright and optimistic hopefulness in their hearts. The children who turn negative tend to be the ones who had some terrible disappointment by the age of five, a disappointment related to some "beautiful dream". Like, finding out before they were ready that Santa Claus is not real, or, that daddy isn't ever coming back home and the family is no longer ideal, or any of the millions of circumstances that rob children completely of the dream of their own childhoods. They grow up, for the most part, to be more negative than do children who somehow had a dream or two come true when they were very young. Keep that, and compassion, in mind when considering your mother and sister's negativity. Most women have good reasons to be negative. We have to face many disappointments in the course of our gender's travails. You are lucky to have a mother and a sister. Women with good relationships with their mother or sisters have happier, less disappointing lives than women who do not have the lifelong support of close female relatives or friends. Try to understand why they may be the way they are and then help them suffer less. Negativity is a form of suffering.
2006-09-29 04:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great that you are a happy person but everyone can be unhappy at sometime in their lives and none can be forever 100% happy all the time!
2006-09-29 03:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truely i think some people are so negitive cuz they were raised that way. they seen their parents and family and their reaction to things and thought thats how its suppose to be..
then there is cuz they been thru alot of negitive and thats all they can see now...
then there is the negitive people around them that make them that way...
there are a lot of reasons...
depends on the person...
2006-09-29 03:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by NiKkI Lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have never danced to the song
Peanut Butter Jelly Time.
2006-09-29 06:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by foghat77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people that always see the negative side of things is because they grew up around negativity most their lives and don't know how to change it .
2006-09-29 12:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the ppl in this world have -ve attitude.....
the point lies in wich way r we taking it....
u see,u have full of choices in this world.............for any situation u can either 1.take in a +ve way or.... 2. can take in a -ve way.....
so u have to decide it...........
even if people always talk -vely, u keep taking it +vely(as a challege) and improve urself!!!!!
all d best!!!
2006-09-29 04:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that if it does not turn out the way they wish it to be, they will not get disappointed too much. its best to be in the middle-think of both sides of things.
2006-09-29 04:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by mei mei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a human nature! Look at U, Ur mom and Ur sis too may have many good things.............. Do U get what I am at?
2006-09-29 03:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is human nature
some ppl are born this way
some negative
some positive
and some are both
2006-09-29 04:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by x040493t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋