Me and my boyfriend been together for 6 months... And he gets mad if i go out with my friends or if i happen to talk to someone of the opposite sex.. We end of having a big arguement he says i rather hang with my friends than be with him but i'm with him everyday!!! He also has 2 kids from 2 different women and i don't have no kids but if anything i think i should be more jealous but i'm not i mean i do get jealous sometimes but i don't know what to do
2006-09-28 20:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by ~*Megan N MaRc~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to stop this action...NOW. It will only get worst. You cannot allow him to act as if he own you.
That is a very, very BAD idea.
Never let any man rule your life...never.
He must be made to understand that you don't find his jealousies and controlling attitude attractive at all...and thus will not be tolerated. You've got to mean this and not back down.
However way you want to tell him is up to you, but you must tell him.
If you allow it, in time you will feel very dominated with no freedom. These types of men do not respect you. They tend to think of you as a toy to be shone around and to smile for his friends.
I employ you to step back and take a long look at how he acts and think.
I wish you well.
2006-09-28 20:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! Why do you want a guy that doesn't even let you hang out with your friends? You should just end this right now before you end up pregnant or married to him and thats when you will regret it! There are a lot of guys out there that have no kids and that are not that jealous! You can do so much better! Good Luck!
2006-09-29 03:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I just came out of that relationship - lol. He got to the point where he said I wasn't allowed to hang out with my best friend anymore. Now we've been best buds since we were 13 and now i'm 21 - I'd only been seeing him for 4 months. then a couple days later he grabbed my arm and squeezed me so tight he left bruises on me - all the while he was saying he loved me so much and I can never leave him. Um, thats when I left. Jealousy starts to get crazy sometimes, so be careful. I would get rid of him as soon as possible, cuz it'll only get worse!
2006-09-29 03:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by newty111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be insecure. Knowing you don't have kids makes him more intimidated. He has been through other relationship that failed so he is afraid of losing you. Let him know that you wouldn't hurt him like the others. If he continues to smother you tell him you need space and you don't want to see him for awhile. Maybe then he will realize what he is doing and will slack off and start trusting you.
2006-09-29 03:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship FAST!!! no point in staying around with that, what a miserable relationship you must have, go be with a guy thats all for you and treats you like a princess
2006-09-29 03:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by shaznz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweeti...guys being jealous like this is a good thing...he is like this cuz he cares 4 you..remember that....
its a normal thing 4 a guy...i think he feels this way because he doesnt want to screw up another relationship knowing he has 2 kids from 2 ladies...
sweeti its up 2 you if you want to be with him.if you really love him tell him in a relationship its about trust 2...that he has 2 relax abit..
2006-09-29 03:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say. but your boyfriend is just way too childish. since you do not have any children and still wants to have fun, maybe you guys arent really meant to be together. jealousy is shameful. i think you need to be getting a different guy for a boyfriend.
2006-09-29 03:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish with him. He is too controlling and if you stay with him you will have a miserable life. He needs to get help with his jealousy.
Find someone who trusts you and lets you have a life. Good luck
2006-09-29 03:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel..its just tat he wants u to love him..he wants ur attention....tats y he's feeling insecured...give him some time.. try to explain him tat u luv him but u have frnds n every1 has diff priorities in life...ur not in an island...what i did was gave my bf as much time i cud..pampered him ...spolit him n now he himself tells me to go out with frnds n he has no prob. with my male frnds but before if i said that brad pitt was hot he had a prob. with tat!!now he laughs at how he used to behave earlier...actually guys r just kids at heart..u just need to pampaer them n they'll do anything for u...
2006-09-29 03:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new man. one that lets you have your space
2006-09-29 03:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋