It really doesn't seem to pay off to be a nice guy these days. The media and culture have completely ****** with everyones values, making only the hottest, badass, rich boys are worth getting and that nice guys are pathetic excuses of human beings who are there to be abused ot something. In fact it seems to me that being a nice guy isn;t worth the effort. I'm told the same thing "Girls want bad boys now, in the future they mature and then want a nice guy" WTF so the nice guy gets to sit by and watch as half his life passes by before he finds someone to apprecitae him, thats a load of bull ****. I don't want to wait to be in my 30's before I can have a serious relationship, one where you're actually loved and valued, to only be some girls "last resort" cause she couldn't have her way with a bad boy.
2006-09-28 20:13:47 · 15 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well im so sorry to hear that. There are plenty of girls out there that want to be with a nice guy. I do. But things happen for a reason youll find the one your supposed to be with. Good luck on your journey.
2006-09-28 20:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by ~florida-girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think the bad boys suck! There is nothing wrong with being a good guy these days!! Some girls are just ignorant.
Never let anyone make you change into a bad boy!
I hope you find the girl of your dreams!!
Best wishes! :-)
2006-09-29 03:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's true my son in the mid 1980's had the same problem he finally ask some girls why . and they said your to nice of a guy . girls seem to think that bad boys give them such a thrill . they get little tingles all over them when they see a bad boy they seem to think that they make better lovers when they get knocked around
2006-09-29 03:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by real answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not true that all girls want bad guys. Girls who have high self esteem and confidence want guys who are witty, confident, clever and kind. The media present 'bad guys' as being exciting but usually they are men with huge issues and are trying to prove themselves, as they lack in other departments.
2006-09-29 03:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to have both sides, being nice is not everything.. What does being a nice guy mean? It's been given a bad rep but you can be nice to certain people and still maintain baddass status...
2006-09-29 03:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by spacejammer230 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes. And you sound really bitter. You know you are probably the same way. You probably aren't attracted to nice girls that would treat you well. Its a catch 22 I guess
2006-09-29 03:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by michelle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U TELL IT BROTHER
i am in my 30s and single all the women i have dated cheated or had crappy morals and values.
the last one didn't work or help around the house and she had 2 kids. i did everything from cookingand laundry to working.
she slept and spent money. when shopping without me she would wear the shortest skirts or the hottest outfits.
2006-09-29 03:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i was 20 thinking i dont want to be 30 and alone,well now im 31 still alone but thats life enjoy it and dont give up on that dream that lives inside your heart and head..get what you deserve in life and dont give in till you get what it is you need.....ive never wished to be where i am and its tough mentally and emotionally..many can listen but noy quiet understand exactly how it feels to be alone not where you wish trying to make something of you life only to have your heart crushed time and time again...makes you hard..so toughen up show your in control fo your life and are going to make it with or without them beside you.....good luck to all lost and lonely broken hearts...its actually nice guys attract badgirls and we gotta find ourselves sweetgirl
2006-09-29 03:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all girls like the bad boys. maybe you are just looking for a girl in the wrong places.
2006-09-29 03:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are just cowards too scared to do what he wants and hide behind the "good" guy image. Do us all a favor and yourself as well; please don't be a 'nice guy', just be a MAN and do the things a MAN do, such as being strong but gentle, passionate but yet understanding, etc...
2006-09-29 03:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋