i have this "friend with benefits", who is 3 yrs older than me. when we were growing up everyone always had crushes on him. i used to be over weight, but lost 58 lbs. anyways we started seeing eachother "that way" 2 1/2 yrs ago. he calls me non stop tho. it's getting really annoying because it's 3:00 am 5 X every other day. we hang around mostly the same friends and he act's like we don't even talk, and i hardly ever answer the phone and he doesn't get the hint. what should i do??? need help???
2006-09-28 20:02:49 · 15 answers · asked by pattiwish 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have sai that this has to stop, i've even hooked up with other guys, and he's seen it all.
2006-09-28 20:13:32 · update #1
oh yeah there's another who is 9 yrs older than me, he's just as bad
2006-09-28 20:20:06 · update #2
oh yeah there's another who is 9 yrs older than me, he's just as bad. he actually bangs on my front door around the same time
2006-09-28 20:20:49 · update #3
Avoid them as much as you can. Don't take there calls anymore and don't answer the door. At night unplug your phone. If you continue to do this maybe they will get the hint and leave you alone! They don't think much of you to respect you. Forget them.
2006-09-28 20:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you're using him for sex and like wise, he wants to talk at 3am, but wont acknowledge you among others,( is that right?). Assuming I've not mucked up, you want him to leave you alone completely? If so, when you're together in a group, say to him, " I'm sick of us being **** buddies. Lets just be friends" Make sure everyone else hears. Should do the trick.
2006-09-28 20:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by bougainvillaea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him all good things must come to an end and so do crappy little things like him and you...bye bye don't let the door hit in the *** on your way out
2006-09-28 20:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop calling you at night and if he doesn't then turn off the phone. If he doesn't behave right and you talk to him about it and it doesn't do any good then dump him.
2006-09-28 20:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Find a guy that's better looking than he is, and bring him along with your group of friends. He'll either become jealous and seriously pursue you without fear of redicule by your "friends" or he'll lose interest.
Guys are ho*rny, don't let him take advantage of you, don't give it up!
2006-09-28 20:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be afraid to speak your mind if it annoys you tell him exactly the same thing be real with him. then if he still wont stop maybe you should change your number. good luck.
2006-09-28 20:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop seeing him!or just tell him u want 2 break up with him.he seems pretty weird 2 me.
2006-09-28 20:08:39 · answer #7 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't really understand your proble...but if you want to end it just tell him if not then talk to him about getting maybe serious or something...anyway just be honest with him and yourself.
good luck!
2006-09-28 20:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by anesziere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and don't hold back any punches....If that don't work tell him he's terrible in bed and you can't take it any more....
2006-09-28 20:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL; BUT DO IT IN A PUBLIC PLACE , JUST IN-CASE
2006-09-28 20:07:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mike H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋